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You don't need people to tell you how you look. It's your body be happy with it. Never change for somebody. True beauty is on the inside not the outside.
Because being delusional and thinking your a 10 when everyone else sees you as a 3-5/10 isn't going to go well for your dating life.
Be positive. :)
Is there anything you can do about it?
No of course you shouldn't see yourself as 10/10 (because that's just being cocky) but at least try to think of yourself as a least average. It's all about being positive and not hating yourself.
@99percentangel can you still get the hottest girls while looking average
@OhioNativeForLife see it's people like you that bug me. If you want people to see you as attractive and not to care much about looks then why do you care so much about getting the hottest girls while you're just average? Yes it can happen lots of people who are average get with people who are better looking, but you should lower your expectations doesn't happen to everyone. As long as you find someone who is attractive in your eyes and has a good personality why does it matter if she not the hottest girl in the world?
@99percentangel because only the "best" guys get the hottest girls. Am I supposed to think of my average looks as some sort of physical deformity that does not allow me to reproduce with the most attractive (which may mean genetically healthier) females? If looks don't matter, why is there a 1 - 10 scale to begin with?
@OhioNativeForLife looks don't matter, at least not to me. And no if you want people to stop caring about looks so should you. By the way you're talking you don't deserve a beautiful/hot women. Yes you shouldn't have to settle for a ugly female, but as long as she's average like you it shouldn't matter if she's not a 10/10. And nope not true you can still reproduce good looking children even if you and your wife are both just average. I knew this family who were well let me be blank ugly. And their daughter (one of my friends) is very beautiful. So you have no excuse for being shallow and only wanting a hot girl.
@99percentangel it's human nature for a guy to want a 10/10, but obviously there are other factors such as personality
@OhioNativeForLife haha okay keep being delusional and have fun with not getting a 10/10
@99percentangel why can't I get one? Don't you see 10/10's with average looking guys?
@OhioNativeForLife first of all there's no such thing as a 10/10, but many come close. And yes sometimes I'll see a attractive women with a ugly or average guy, but it's not that commen. Most times those women tend to be gold diggers. And yeah some will do it because they actually like his personality, but you don't seem to have a nice one. You're stuck up, and have way to high standards for yourself. I don't really see you being with a really attractive women, but who knows. Lastly stop tagging me I'm done with this conversation.
@99percentangel you're right there's no such thing as a 10/10. I definitely deserve whatever is best. I've been through a lot of shit in my life.
@OhioNativeForLife everyone has been through shit doesn't mean you deserve anything better then anyone else.
@99percentangel not like I have. Other guys are pussies.
5/10 guy=0/10 to girls
5/10 girl=7/10 to guys
so being an average guy isn't doing you any justice
@finalgagaccountVNMC 10/10 dick. And you're not even including money or anything like that.
my dick is bigger than yours i saw that pic of urs with the boner in ur pants long back lol, ur like 5'' or so at the most
@finalgagaccountVNMC no closer to 6", but I'm more talking about stamina anyway. Weird that you pay attention to these things.
what can i say ohio, i love you, please offend me sexually baby ;)
@finalgagaccountVNMC which I'm not one of those, but okay.
@polocrew read this lmfaoo
@finalgagaccountVNMC lmfaooo nerds
His stats:5'7 130 lbs
Its on his sex offender list @polocrew
This is not even a joke, its true, he used to come here before and give his name out and a lot of people know it 😂😂😂😂
@finalgagaccountVNMC I am not a sex offender nor was I ever.
Cyber stalker then u were creeping out on a woman lol
@OhioNativeForLife shut up fgit, U r 130 pounds. I eat burritos bigger than that, wedgie yourself and show us or we gonna do it anyway
@polocrew, he gonna cyber stalk you now and try to make a "burrito" with you and me 😉
@finalgagaccountVNMC lmao wait Ima post screenshots of his msges
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@finalgagaccountVNMC lmfao get this nerd
@Polocrew I'm not a nerd. I used to be a LSD dealer. That's the coolest thing ever.
@OhioNativeForLife Dang really? That's dope dude, How many chicks u have banged and who was hottest one and how big is ur cock rly? Don't lie bexause I'd know you are lying and lets just say we won't like that
@Polocrew 50. The hottest I paid for (I've done that a few times), it's 6.5" with pornstar-like stamina.
@OhioNativeForLife when I Google your name, it says in one article chicks weren't really impressed by your bed performance and you usually gave up in 9 seconds? Wtf that's not porn star stamina fgit wtf u lieing? I told u we don't like liars
@Polocrew I don't think that's on there. I used to have some videos of me on fling. com.
I won't lie, I use Viagra (and a desensitizing spray).
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@ohionativeforlife danf dude u look hella jacked here, did u used steroids? @finalgagaccountVNMC
@Polocrew yea I did. I was on the homeless diet.
@OhioNativeForLife you think this is funny fgit? Tell us which steroids u used for that jacked bod u used to have?
Shitttttt😂😂😂😂😂
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@finalgagaccountVNMC dude jacked af
What was his name again lol?
@finalgagaccountVNMC Patrick macchione
Schlayerrrr
@finalgagaccountVNMC
@ohionativeforlife dude would u give us both your number? We wanna talk to u, u r just so famous
@Polocrew yea. I was gonna ask if you could get me into a frat party, but then I remembered I'm trespassed from the UCF campus.
Don't post my name on here. I'll tell you in private.
@OhioNativeForLife I'm ato legacy in, I can get you anywhere in any alpha tau omega house nationally. And im fau verbal commit already, Hmu for details and give us your number. Thays easy plus u r famous
@Polocrew I would go to jail if I went on the UCF campus. Not worth one year.
@OhioNativeForLife ok then message me your number and you better not be making up your identity, we do really bad things to people that lie to us. @finalaccountgagVNMC is my pledge brother, he rushed in just last year
@finalgagaccountVNMC *
@OhioNativeForLife whyd u wanna go to ucf where fau is really where it at? And no i can sneak u in easy
We gonna have to confirm you reallt are that person who u saying doe bexause you sound like you lying @ohionativeforlife
@finalgagaccountVNMC what u think?
Woah... you guys! wtf is going on here?
@This_is_my_username nothing leave him he's nice guy
@This_is_my_username lol I don't know the guy just kept asking me questions then everyone else starting commenting.
@99percentangel Ahhh yes. He was a ! creepzoid @Polocrew figured it out! :) he left tho. Which is good.
He'll be back in a week
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Read the comments in the end 😂😂😂
@finalgagaccountVNMC ugh! The admins should just block the creep. Cool alias by the way
Lol he keeps coming back ha ha , I have seen him come on and off with various account for all the 3 months I have been here
Great take... let's just hope people listen lol
Reality: You loving yourself is nice. Someone else loving you too is better.
Affirmation. Why do you need to ask questions to which the answer is obvious?
I find myself ugly but when I ask people they find me pretty. So that's good.
Because we are social creatures and the "everyone is beautiful" crusaders are full of shit and they know it deep down inside.
Sometimes it's just to make sure that you are presentable... Sometimes it's about self-esteem.
Because being seen as attractive gives you a better life.
it depends, perhaps move on if you don't like this sub-forum.
Because lack of self esteem. An upbringing is really important.
I'd totally have to agree. People rarely believe this when you say it, but there is something huge to be said about self confidence and knowing your self-esteem and believing you have worth despite what others may say. I know some people in my life that I personally do not consider to be the attractive sort, however, their personalities are killer. They walk in a room and own it, and they have the friends, the popularity, and dates and the husbands and wives to prove it. Looks really aren't everything.
well being attractive is linked to power which boost your self-esteem and your confidence just as being the smartest dude on the room or the most competent dude on the room and so on.
I felt like trash 24/7 and the only thing that reassure me is getting stronger in sports and getting more and more competent in my job, that's why I work at least 12h a day and go 5-7 times to the gym cause it prevents me to going into depression like I have been before.
Of course, there are always those guys who are naturally confident but I don't know how are they doing it cause we are all random people, very few people should be confident imho cause you can be confident when you are talented and exceptionnal and very few people are.
Personal perception vs hardcore reality
Much of it is just curiosity
yes, lets be fat and find excuses not to go to gym...
why are you people so obsessed with who's fat or not? You spend so much time on this topic and trolling, that it's like, seriously, is there nothing else going on in your life?
I didn't spent time on this topic... mind ur own bussiness, and live ur life... if u have one
To know if your standards are realistic?
DON T LOOK ANY ONE... THEY LOOK U ...
i always wonder if i'm attractive to other people
YESSSSS PREACH! I love this.
I couldn't agree more
You're right thank you for the advice