Why girls should not feel insecure about their small boobs!!

[Janett21]

Nowadays many girls with small breasts feel insecure about them and would like to have bigger ones or are thinking of getting implants. I have to admit that I used to feel this way too. This article is for all the small breasted and I hope you will feel better after reading this.

After reading so many breast question here in GaG I want to ask you girls: Would you like to have a relationship with a guy, who cares only about breast size? I´m sure not. Fact is that there are guys who dont care about breast size at all as long as you have a nice personality and a nice body overall. Even if you may not believe it, there are guys too who prefer smaller ones over bigger- yes they exist. Studies have also shown that men who prefer smaller ones over bigger, are more loyal to their gf.I know it isnot always true,but generally spoken if he prefers your small breasts, chances shrink to cheat on you.

I have to add that high school boys tend to prefer larger ones, but they are mostly inexperienced and believe what media shows them. As they grow up, they appreciate the smaller ones as much as the bigger ones. In addition, smalller breasts tend to have a nice shape and more sensitive nipples. I have heard many times from guys that big boobs on a bra look look nice, but small breasts win when naked.

Sometimes I feel that both men and women have forgotten the main reason why breasts exist: The primary function of the breasts – as mammary glands – is the feeding and the nourishing of an infant child with breast milk during the maternal lactation period. As long as small breasts can feed a baby during pregnancy as well as big breasts can, there is no problem with having smaller ones!

Now Im going to to explain you why small breasts rock, although Im sure you have heard of these many times:

• They make you look younger. If you are now young, you dont appreciate this fact but trust me girls when you grow up it´s something you will appreciate.


• They don't sag. I know you have probably heard of it many times, but when you will be older and all your big breasted friends will have saggy ones, you will thank god to have smaller ones. Sometimes small breasts can sag too, but not as much as bigger ones do.


• You usually won´t have problems with sexist men. Guys who only like girls with big boobs are shallow but it is proven that they are sexist too.


• You feel more pleasure in bed. I know I have wrote it before too, but it is just amazing.Researchers found that large breasts are 24 percent less sensitive than small breasts.


• You can go out braless. I have to admit that I have never gone out braless, but really why not? Your shape is amazing and men will stare at your nice perky boobs!


• You don´t look "slutty". I know that big breasted women should not be consideres slutty as well, but it happens. My large-breasted friends get always sexist attention, and really it is not nice at all.


• They look more elegant.I think I dont need to explan this more, they just look more elegant.


• It is "healthier". You won´t have back pains at all. I have friends who are only 18 and are complaining about back pains. I think it is awful!


• Many stars have small breasts. Like Keira Knightley,Taylor Swift, Olivia Wilde but there are still guys as you see who think they are beautys!

There are many other reasons too why you should love them, but as I know that many girls don´t like them because they think they are not feminine and guys won´t like them I want to talk more about this.Small breasts can be feminine too, I have seen lots of sexy small breasted women. Of course there are guys who prefer larger ones over smaller ones, I know that. But personally, I would never date a guy who cares only about breasts. I dont want to be with a guy who only wants big breasts or small breasts, but I want to be with a guy who doesn't care about it because he loves me and find me sexy the way I am. I know that media is making you girls insecure, and many of you are considering a breast augmentation, but there is no need to do it really. Would you prefer to be with a guy who won´t date you with small breasts, but will do with big ones? I think no.

I have never judged a guy by his penis size, and guys should never judge girls by their breast size.It is so disrespectful and shallow. It isn´t our fault that we have small breasts, it´s our genes.One day a good male friend asked me: Would you prefer to have big breasts? I think I gave him the best answer: I don´t care if my breasts are a D cup,an A cup or if I don´t have breasts a all.I would always love myself the way I am and honestly there are things more important then breasts. He never said anything about my breasts till then!

So girls, love your breasts no matter how big they are love yourself and don´t let anyone make you feel insecure about them(don´t let media too). You will find a guy who doesn´t care about your breasts at all and who wouldnot change them if he could. Who ever doesn't appreciate you the way you are, doesn´t deserve you-just remember that.

[xHoneyxBeex]

While this is a good message to send to smaller chested women, In my honest opinion, it seemed as if you were putting down larger breasts AND men who like larger breasts. That may have not been your intention, it's just how it seemed to me as I was reading it. Women come in all shapes and sizes, regardless of how big or small someone's chest is, all women should feel happy and confident with themselves. A few examples I picked up on:

-"Studies have also shown that men who prefer smaller ones over bigger, are more loyal to their gf." I highly doubt that, I don't see how preferring a certain breast size makes someone more loyal. I could be wrong but you didn't cite any outside reliable sources to back up this claim.

-"They will make you look younger" I don't think breast size has much to do with how old someone looks.

- "I have heard many times from guys that big boobs on a bra look look nice, but small breasts win when naked." I'm pretty sure most guys would agree that ALL boobs win when naked.

- "They don't sag" This is false. ALL boobs will sag eventually, even smaller ones. The aging process is inevitable and gravity will eventually take it's toll on everyone, regardless of breast size.

-"Guys who only like girls with big boobs are shallow but it is proven that they are sexist too." I think that's a pretty big claim to make and I don't see that as being true for the majority of men who prefer larger breasts.

-"They look more elegant" I don't see how breast size correlates with elegance, this just seems to be another dig at larger boobs.

So again, while the initial message is good that small chested women should be confident, I just feel like this could have been presented in a way that doesn't make other women feel bad about their size. Don't get me wrong, I'm not attacking you and I'm not trying to be rude so I hope you don't take it the wrong way, I'm just giving my honest feedback.

P. S. This is all coming from someone who is a 32B.

[Janett21]

Babe this article is for small breasted women, so you see I had to say things like these but I didn't want to attack the big breasted ones. That's why I said in the end: I don´t care if my breasts are a D cup, an A cup or if I don´t have breasts a all. I would always love myself the way I am and honestly there are things more important then breasts. If these article was dor big breasted women I would say things like: You can better play with them. I didn't say I believe these studies, but studies have shown it honestly. They make you look younger is true again, thats why in films the actresses who are playing a young lady have often smaller boobs. That with when naked, I have heard it 1000 times from guys. They dont sag: my aunt is 40 and her boobs are as perksy as mine. But I mentioned that when They sag, they won't as much as bigger ones.

[Janett21]

Also I dont have a problem with guys who prefer larger boobs, I meant it in another way like he is with her only because of her boobs. They look morr elegant, mm if will weae the same thing with my D breasted friend, people say me it looks more elegant, to me. thats why I said it. Anyway, I hope I didn't insult big breasted women because honestly I believe all breast sizes are ok and I had to say things like these, if it was for big breasted women I would say things I like I mentioned before :)

[xHoneyxBeex]

Just because you say these studies exist doesn't make them valid. But anyway, I'm sure it wasn't your intentions to put down anyone but that is how the article came across when I was reading it. I still disagree with those points you made that I addressed in my opinion but you are entitled to your opinion as well and again, I wasn't trying to be rude towards you, just explaining my viewpoint.

[DoctorSex]

I really don't get what the problem about breast size is or where it stems from. Having big breasts is an abnormality by nature, it serves no useful function, i'll explain in my hypothesis why it exists in society.

Firstly, i much prefer small breasts, big breasts do nothing for me... absolutely nothing. I also think the more you learn and the more you research into the mentality of guys who like big breasts, the more you should worry as a female the mental state of a guy who goes for big breasts.

In the science of sex appeal for example, it is common knowledge that men and women find particular physical body ratios sexually appealing, We know that broad shoulders and height in a guy is attractive to a woman, we also know that symmetry in facial features is more attractive to look at, in general.

We also learn that functionally we look for certain body parts in relation to our needs. A leader male who wishes to protect and lead look after his family would pick a woman with strong legs and a strong rear. The psychology and rationale behind it being, 'If food is scarce, she would be able to travel great distances with me, whilst bearing kids for me. Also if danger was approaching, she'd be able to comfortably escape the danger.'

Seeing as big breasts do not produce any more milk than smaller breasts, the reason why a male would prefer it has no evolutionary purpose and so is an interpersonal preference in relation to that males character.

Breasts are a tool developed inside the mother for the purpose of her child. A child grows a further deeper connection to the mother through the breasts.
Once an animal in and species grows out of childhood, it no longer finds the breast the focus.
It can be rationalized that the man male who likes big breasts is the male who is still looking to be mothered and taken care of. I would argue that breast fetishes are the symptoms of an emotionally underdeveloped male.

[Kevin180]

What the actual fuck... You just said guys who like boobs are looking at girls like their mother... You're messed up...

[DoctorSex]

What I've suggested in my opinion, which i own, is that men who go for big breasts are looking to be mothered unconsciously, although consciously they may not realise this but through their actions one can observe this. This is me speaking in general and applies to everyone else except you Kevin180

[Janett21]

I liked your answer very much , thank you! :)

[DoctorSex]

Thank you for posting the article...

[Janett21]

You are welcome-I feel it is a pity to feel insecure about breasts , they are just breasts!

[SammyGurl]

Great take on small breasts. Sure not all guys are enamored with our A and small B cups, they don't have to look if they don't want to.

Being a "Sporty Girl" who runs and plays a whole lot of softball, and even baseball with the guys (when I can) I'd rather have my small breasts. They stay put when I run, they move with me when I make a quick move to catch a ball, they're right there with me when I'm pitching a BB over the plate. I've watched a few of my larger breasted friends do the same, there is some sort of time lag that exists with large breasts, you move and they stay where you were until they catch up. I actually feel sorry for large breasted girls trying to run, once those things finally get into motion it takes a while for them to settle down!

Braless, every once in a while I sneak out without one, normally under a heavier top or sweater. Just because I can get away without the dreaded bra, doesn't mean I wish to advertise that fact to every post pubescent guy around me by flashing my nipples around. That's why I don't wear T shirts without a bra, plus it just looks tacky.

I feel so lucky my fiancé is a "small breast man" I used to catch him looking when I had small A cups. He was so cute, he'd get all shy, his cheeks reddened and he'd just say "What?". I'd always smile back at him, feeling like he just given me the greatest compliment ever. Even when my breasts were enlarged nipples, he never looked disapointed when finally I shared them with him. He has never ever said anything like he wished they were bigger. In fact the first time he saw me without a top on, I said something like I wished they were bigger for him; he just told me he didn't he loved my small breasts because they are a part of me. He told me he loved me because of who I am not because of my breasts. When he tells me the truth like that it almost takes my breath away, I feel so loved!

[Janett21]

Your fiancè is soo cute and he must be really in love with youu! Good luck!! :))

[SpecJack]

Aww! Your fiancé is so cute! Glad you and your guy love your small bust! We need more girls like you! I'd love to work out with a sporty girl like you ^_^

[soneoak]

Hey, boobs are boobs, body is body, face is face. There is nothing wrong with appreciating physical beauty.

Some are just luckier than others, so it really isn't too much to congratulate someone on, what you should be fascinated with though are their choices.

No I don't mean good or bad choices, often times, people make the 'right' decision. If they 'fall' to temptation, it is also usually due to certain factors that popped up in their heads at that time... and they may require failure to learn from before they can succeed.

What I mean is - apple or orange, which do you prefer? Dogs or cats? This colour or that colour?

In the same sense, this boob, that boob, how much boob? Those are just bonuses based on luck. There is a certain criteria that you would need met before your body gets turned on. BUT, it doesn't follow the rigid size formula.

I for one prefer cute shaped boobs that are sensitive to light touch. I don't grab afterall. I caress. As such, smaller boobs are often better.

Big boobs, big cock, big ass etc? They never look good unless in proportion to the rest of the body.

What you have is probably perfect, for whoever is perfect for you.

[Janett21]

I agree with you everyone has his own preference and it is good to be soo! :D

[adadi2ask]

I use to love big boobs till I had em and each big set of tits had that oh I'm so fancy can't u see my big tits that mo matter what you will see they use daily to boost their egos and you soon begin to notice how the small boobed girls sort of just move out of the ways of the ego sluts that they are b4 some new guy shows up and they begin their big titted floor dance that just is another installment of well worn Reputation as she brings up the size of the other cup size like it was court appointed as a need to be spoken about in the faceless manner that only big tits get to be anymore then the less haven't... oh pleaz I must stop! But I've never seen a big titted chick quiver n shake at just you removing one from its bra or seen one cum like a loaded freight train just hit her buttons attachment and direct connection to there of or how nice her little dime sized nipples never look like she just nursed 16 kids and oh yuk! Yukl n yuk! Little titties are the sexist and never do they have to two big raisins sagging dn to their waist making u LoOk Like the fat Cow u really are...
Not so bitchen now or then are ya big tits? Guess not...

[LonelyLillie13]

wow haha i like this :D

[Kinstrome]

I never really understood the obsession with big breasts. It seems like one of those things that's easy to use as the basis of jokes, since it's often said that "men prefer big boobs" like "women prefer big dicks," and it's easy for people to understand a punchline centered around that.

With that said, I feel like this take is instigating a competition between small breasts and big breasts. What society should be doing is helping women to understand that they aren't less valuable because they have small breasts, not that they are more valuable because they have small breasts.

Also, I don't think men who can't have a woman without a certain breast size are necessarily sexist. Some people have brains that have been conditioned to need specific things in order to be happy. A woman posted here once that she couldn't see her relationship working because her boyfriend did not quite have a big enough penis. That doesn't make her sexist, and she was not at all angry at him, and even a little ashamed of herself. Having needs is not wrong.

Still, I think this is valuable information for girls who may believe that men really only want large breasts. It's such a shame when a young girl gets implants just to look better.

[Janett21]

Yes I also didn't want to insult larger breasts I just wanted to make small breasted women feel morr confident :) im glad you realised it

[Jayded1]

I like your core point. Guys on average do not care. Some guys like big boobs, some guys like small. Will a guy who likes big not date a girl with small or vice versa. No way! I for one fall in to the category of preferring larger. However I've dated girls with A cups and loved them just as much. its just a preference, it doesn't matter. like hair length, eye color etc . Everyone has a preference, but its no deal breaker.

I agree though this post is insulting to larger breasted women, its not like that have any more control over size then smaller. Its like songs like "Its all about the bass" Have all these curvy girls going crazy when really the sing is a slap in the face to thin girls who are teased for being skinny and can't gain weight no matter how hard they try.

One last point. Girls are actually very judgment on penis size. The question "Does penis size matter?" has been asked on this site a thousand times, and most women always answer with the shallow "yes". Guys don't answer like that for breast size.

[Janett21]

I didn't want to insult larger breasted women but I had to say those things :) As for the penis size I think it can't be compared with the breast size but honestly all my female friends dont care that much about penis size. Have a nice day :D

[Anonymous]

If you look on the media, whether commercials, TV shows, movies or what have you, invariably "serious" women, whether up scale, ambitious, young wives and lovers, career girls, etc., are presented as small breasted, whereas bugger-boobed curvy girls are more often presented as slutty, self indulgent, temperamental, materialistic and shallow. It is only in the male fantasy world of "porn" where large breasts are extolled. I am not saying this is fair, but it is true and the harshness of many men toward petite girls may be out of defense of that fantasy and (!) intimidation that petite girls are directed at things beyond being sexual playthings.

Isn't she lovely?
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[Janett21]

yep she is :)

[Janett21]

(and also about the films i have noticed it too but I think it is a pity to have such stereotypes)

[Omissis]

Honestly I really don't care about how big are women's breasts, I've been with both flat chested women, average or big and found all of them attractive just because I found attractive those women, I liked and found interesting their faces, the way they talked and move, the way they smiled and the words they spoke. Aesthetically, I love how every detail, boobs included matches with other details of the overall figure, and I find interesting what could be considered an imperfection, those details that make someone interesting and unique. For sure I don't like fake boobs and implants... Having said that I agree with most of your statements but a woman with big boobs don't necessarily look "slutty", I think it's more in the attitude she could have and not all men who like big boobs are sexist.
Anyway, nice and interesting post, I have a very small penis and I wish that someone could so a similar post concerning small endowed guys and and girls could answer in a positive way like most guys have done here

[progboy]

I have to disagree about men who like big boobs being sexist and shallow. I love big boobs (DD or preferably bigger) but I don't think I'm shallow or sexist at all.

Whilst I do think it's good to increase the confidence of girls with small boobs I don't think you should do it at the expense of big-boobed girls. I know you tried to say you weren't doing that but that's not how it came across. You did say big boobs looked slutty, less elegant and saggy. In fact saying that saggy boobs are bad is also offensive. It happens even to small boobs and I happen to think it's attractive.

Everyone is different and some men love small boobs, some love big ones and some don't even care. Plenty of guys on this site seem to be of the opinion that more than a handful is a waste and while I disagree completely it's purely a matter of taste. One man's meat is another man's poison and all that and if we all liked the same thing then life wouldn't be so varied and enjoyable.

I suppose what I'm trying to say is that everyone has something that somebody will like and there is no absolute good or bad when it comes to boobs. Some guys would be turned off by the kind of girls I like whereas I might not go for the type they like. Also boobs are only one part of the whole package and anyone would have to be a bit stupid to only go for a girl because of her boobs and nothing else.

[Janett21]

I won't say again what I meant but I agree that every one has his own preference and I respect that :)

[PsyNoodles]

I loved this article!! I laughed at the "yes they do exist" in bold for guys who prefer smaller breasts cause I am one and I'm sure I exist lol

A cups have always been my favorite <3 I'd even take double A's (AA's) over B's. Anything bigger than C is just not for me :P

All the reasons you gave were like spot on, all the reasons I prefer smaller breasts over bigger any day! I always feel bad when a girl feels poorly about her breast size, big or small, though it's almost always a "too small?" issue, but for me there really isn't a "too small" just as long as there is something and not nothing lol.

Hooray and yay! for small breasts <3

Wonderful article!!

[Janett21]

Thank you very much- I really love guys answers here, girls can see how many guys like them :)

[emmabee11]

I don't see why they should be ether but they listen to the media ALL THE TIME! LOL STOP LISTENING TO THEM AND BE AN ORIGINAL AND UNIQUE PERSON NOT WHAT OTHERS OR THE MEDIA SAY YOU SHOULD BE AND DON'T ACT IN A WAY THAT OTHER GIRLS TELL YOU IS THE "RIGHT" WAY TO ACT! :P lol, it's not that hard to understand so be strong to all of you girls not just small boobs girls. I have B cup boobs but i love them :) girls with big boobs have told me it hurts their back a lot and that they wish they had small boobs :) so don't listen to anyone, not to shallow girls, not to shallow guys :) they knwo nothing about you.

[Janett21]

Unfortunately some boys dont have their own opinion! But im. glad there are some guys who dont care that much :)

[emmabee11]

The guys who do care are just a minority, most guys couldn't care less lol the only people i've had complaints from is guys who are immature and childish, but every other guy just simply even love the outline of your boobs on your t-shirt ^_^ lol they see the outline and they disspear in them xD.

[Anonymous]

I enjoyed your article, but as someone with small breasts, I would like to know what you consider to be "large" and what you consider "small". I'm an A cup, so to me I consider a B onward as "large". But that's just me. I've seen and heard people say before, "I don't mind small breasts. A 'B' or 'C' cup is big enough for me." And then I'm just thinking in my mind "wait, to me, that's actually very large."

Whenever I feel a little insecure about my size, I remember that I'm quite slim, short, and petite and therefore my breasts don't look disproportionate on my body. I also ask myself, would I rather have very large breasts or small ones? And the answer is always small. They work better on my body and just have more benefits overall, at least to me. But all in all, it's genes and there's nothing we can do to change it. Everyone should be able to accept themselves as they are :)

[Janett21]

Be happy the way you are dont feel ever insecure about your boobs they are just boobs! glad you liked my article :)

[RubberDuckie]

Yeah, B and C are pretty big to me as well since I just barely fill out an A cup.

[blackcactus]

I was an A cup and I thought B was big too. Until I gained a little weight and now I am a B cup, and I feel like C cup would be the perfect size.

[helva]

B and C are big compared to my A's also. But I now feel ok with them what was not the case until my 15-16 years.

They started to grow very early, at 10-11 years. I was the first in my class who had beginning breasts but they stopped to grow when I was 12-13 or so. Most of the other girls had already B's at that time and I was discriminated by them: they said I was still a little child (however I was already 5'5") and was excluded from the girls groups. The boys, happely, didn't bother about that and since I'm 15 I feel OK with them.

[godfatherfan]

Very good article. Most guys don't care. Sure they are fun and nice if they are there but small or big, you can suck on them the same. but you cannot compare breast size and penis size. breasts have nothing to do with any sex act. Women judge men on penis size all the time since we need it to perform intercourse. So I just made sure I got really good at eating pussy and that can make up for a lot even though I am at the higher end or "average".
But you make great points. It comes down to if women will accept themselves and stop letting the wrong part of society make them feel bad.

[AidenBlue]

Yup. True. We notice big boobs because they are big. It doesn't mean we don't like smaller boobs too. It's just more noticeable. I would never ever date solely on boobs. One of the things that make them attractive is a woman's confidence in her body. If you like a guy , smile and share them with him. Don't hide or be ashamed. We like them. There are probably 15% of guys that boob size is important and usually not sexually but more as something to show off to their friends. We laugh at those guys.

[Hannah591]

I'm proud of mine, they're perfect in shape and I can get away with no bra. The girls who want larger boobs (on GaG) are often in high school and are very naive to the world, surrounded by immature boys who only pay attention to what the media says is an attractive girl.
My boyfriend is one of those guys who prefers small over big! I'm a B and his ex was about a D and he said her boobs were just too big and annoying. He's an ass man and I've got that ;)

[Janett21]

I live ass men too haha :)

[Janett21]

love*

[DoctorSex]

Size B and a big bum? my kind of girl :)

[Hannah591]

More proof! ^

[derpaderp]

It's funny... I get insecure about this too but when I really think about getting implants it's awful! They're not real. They're fake bits of plastic hanging off your chest. I'd rather have my god given B cups tbh. They have a nice shape and they're big enough for guys to grab and what's better... they're REAL.

[Janett21]

Dont ever consider plastic boobs! Your natural are looking so much better I swear :)

[Anonymous]

so you tell me to prefer my "boy cousin" instead of that:

https://www.listal.com/viewimage/4686443
https://www.listal.com/viewimage/4686433
https://www.listal.com/viewimage/4686420

or that?

https://www.listal.com/viewimage/206401
https://www.listal.com/viewimage/88235
https://www.listal.com/viewimage/48691
https://www.listal.com/viewimage/2378501

or that?

https://www.listal.com/viewimage/5770984
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HELL NO !!!

[Janett21]

I didn't tell YOU anything. Do and think of whatever you want, I actually dont care at all. And I dont think that Olivia Wilde is a boy or your cousin lol

[Opinion Owner]

well what i was saying is that it's a symbol of femininity and for me its a very attractive element a girl, nothing more. honestly though i can't get the hype about olivia even if she was big breasted, i wouldn't find her pretty. i maybe have a weird taste i dont know. but even you in my opinion have better facial features than olivia. and no im not hitting on you, just making a point based on my preferences.

[Opinion Owner]

but you have to admit that slut shaming and some other stuff you wrote about big breasted girls were too imature and sexist for your age.

[Janett21]

what do you mean for my age? :) I didn't mean that men who like big breasted women are sexist but some are sure. I understand that it is just your preference and ok big breasts look feminine but small breasts make you look younger which is a Bonus too. But honestly I dont care what you are thinking of-you didn't insult me if you think so I dont mind at all

[Opinion Owner]

no no. there were no hard feelings or innuendos here. just some misunderstandings. anyway, have a nice day.

[Janett21]

Thank you and likewise :)

[LonelyLillie13]

let us have some happiness ASSHOLE !

[Janett21]

#Lonelylillie13 haha there are always guys who think like him.. dont let such guys make you insecure♥

[Opinion Owner]

@LonelyLillie13 you will have all the happiness you want. my biggest love of my life was a petite woman, I just said that I generally prefer epic racks. I might marry a petite girl though in the end, who knows. I was just a bit feisty cause the op was like trying to insult big breasted girls and even present flat chested girls as aesthetically better! (not even to mention the health issues crap, it's proven that backpains are not becaue of big breasts). a thing that most men don't believe except if they are in love with the girl so everything looks great on her. she took it to the other extreme. she didn't just support small breasted women, she went as far as to bash the others.

[Opinion Owner]

plus big breasts are for specific body frames. you might have a petite or banana shaped body that would look very unappealing with large breasts. so most women get the breasts they should have. there is no reason to whine about it cause you are naturally prettier in your body...

[dutchpride92]

At first I thought: great, what a wonderful, body-positive comment! But then I read you're putting us bigger-breasted girls down to make yourselves feel better (we look sluttier, feel less pleasure during sex, have back problems, saggy breasts, men don't like us for who we are). You sound like the bigger women who say that thin women are ugly and "not real women". If you wanna put others down to feel good about yourself, go for it, but I doubt anyone would wanna hear you cry when another song like "All About that Bass" comes out.

[Janett21]

Sorry if it insulted you but I did not say anything, which is NOT true.
However, big breasted women have some disadvantages too, which small breasted women don't have.
Also I would not cry, I am strong enough.
That's life

[Janett21]

advantages***

[dutchpride92]

Well, I and all the bigger-breasted ladies in my family have no issues with back problems, saggy breasts, looking slutty, sexist creeps, feeling less pleasure during sex or men not liking us for who we are. You can be body-positive without saying the other party is ugly/not right. You could just say that many men prefer smaller breasts or just don't care, you could point out celebrities who are rocking their bodies, but instead you choose to put bigger-breasted girls down.

[Janett21]

Saggy breasts are getting saggy when you are becoming older.

I did not say big boobed girls dont feel pleasure in sex lol but generally less then small breasted women.

About back pains, it depends how big your boobs are and your frame.

Looking "slutty" is not what I would consider ever a woman only by her boobs, but it happens.

[yodaiam]

Honey, small breasts sag too. fyi.

[front2back]

I honestly don't care about breast size (but I DO like butts). A good portion of the women I have been attracted to have had small (sometimes really small) boobs. Not that I don't like bigger ones, I appreciate them too, but small ones have their own speciality.

[Janett21]

Thanks for your answer! :)

[TadCurious]

I really liked 99.9 % of what you had to say. Your message is very healthy and girls and guys both need to hear it. My only nitpick is over the suggestion that girls with larger breasts look "slutty." I know you didn't mean it that way, but still I thought that took away from you otherwise body-positive message. Girls with larger breasts need to be accepting of the way their bodies are too. I know you agree with that.

[Janett21]

Thank you for your answer Im glad you liked it! :) Well no I didn't meant it so I just meant that they tend to get sexist attention and it's a pity. With my article I didn't want to make larger breasted women feel bad, that's why I didn't use phrases like: smaller ones are better. I dont like to generalize things.

[TadCurious]

I hope we can get to the point where all girls feel good about their breasts, whatever size they are. Same thing with guys about their penises. Just as humans overall come in different shapes and sizes, it's just a fact of life that breasts and penises do as well. We don't come stamped out from some machine! I didn't mean to nitpick about that one point, and I give your take an A+. It's a very important and healthy message.

[Janett21]

Yes I honestly think that all breast sizes are ok, I just wanted to talk about smaller ones because small breasted women tend to feel more insecure. Anyway, all sizes are good and we shouldnot judge anybody about such a thing :)

[Tokana]

Forget breasts, just look at your eyes, your symmetrical face, full lips...

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