FYI, the only reason this is under "how do I look" is because the website wouldn't post it under any of the topics that would have made sense with this question. So, here we go... I don't understand. I have no true guy friends, and no "plausible boyfriends". For some reason guys just don't seem to like me in that way. They like me when they need a good grade, but after that I never see them again. I'm a singer, an actress, I'm a catcher for my softball team, I play in the band, I'm not physically Unattractive (I just don't describe myself as "hot"), I'm smart, but guys just don't seem attracted to me at all. The only reasons I could think that they aren't are that I complain a lot (although, I must say, I've worked on that and now I only complain in my head, and once in a blue moon outloud), and that I'm not "hot". Is there something wrong with me?
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No, it could be how you carry yourself.
I used to have the same problem in high school. Guys barely approached me. When I started going out with my ex, a lot of the guys would ask him how he got me. But I overheard a conversation one time with a group of guys, and they thought I was a conceded prude lol; which wasn't the case.
So, it may just be how you carry yourself.0
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