My new year resolution is to become a better man. I'll be spending time, and money, in updating my wardrobe, working on my social skills, gaining confidence and as a whole, working on myself to change from being the beta male i have always been, to an alpha male, where i want to, and am suppose to be. A man who is driven by his goals, and isn't afraid of failure or rejection.
One of the things i'm looking at, is changing my style that can help bring out my personality and, when the time comes, to help convey the self respect and confidence that i hope to achieve within the next couple of months. I'm getting different ideas from people, through internet, face-to-face and generally all round to help me "have a clue" about the current fashion trends and where i can aim to reach my goal.
So what i'm asking of the ladies and gents here, is to take a look at the photo i'll be linking/attaching and give me your opinions on what you like AND what you don't like. BE HONEST, but be polite! This is going to help me get a better idea of where i need to work on, in regards to the visual side of things. The internal side, i'm working on that myself. I just need opinions on the physical/visual aspect.
Also, for any fashion ladies and gents out there, i'm busy trying to find a hair and beard style that would suit my facial structure and work with what i want to achieve. What ideas can you give me? Images to be provided please, so i can see what is being given.
Most Helpful Girl
1. You are going to the gym daily now and then dance classes, both with further guide you on appearance & dressing it, not to mention social IQ
2. Until your shoulders swallow up some of that neck (that gals would love on themselves), vests & high collars are your new look, depending on season
3. You'll hate this - beards indicate self-involved guys or blue-collar, even lazy (however brilliant a writer/creator they really may be) = LOSE IT, clean shaven but allowed some modest latitude at sideburns & rear bottom cut. Find a hair stylist that a) LIKES you & b) is creative, takes her time... at least on first visit to do "what's best" with your hair while it lasts
4. Dress for success = whatever your professional is, get inspired by those in positions you covet.
Actually, the easiest path to follow would be a GF's advice, who is terribly in love with you but not so jealous she would torpedo your efforts.0