I'm a teenage Asian girl in an almost all white community. I've never kissed or dated a guy. I'm outgoing, popular, and athletic. I'm a cheerleader and get really good grades. I feel like guys don't approach me because I'm Asian... opinions? Do you think I'm decent looking? I also have high standards, but guys don't even approach me. It's getting to a point where it's embarrassing.
Do guys like Asian girls?
What Guys Said 22
I've seen a lot of white male Asian female couples. they sure do find attraction in each other.3
You're at the top of the totem pole.
It will take some guys a certain amount of condense to approach you.
But since you said you're in a white community, there's a possibility that yellow fever is weak there since most guys there would be used to dating white girls.
I notice yellow fever in white guys who live in more diverse towns or are through with white women.
There's also a possibility that many guys are somehow familiar with your high standards (social media, gossip, etc can show some of your standards) and thus jaded toward approaching you because they'd just assume you'd reject them.
Could you describe your standards to me?0
Beyond the regular fetishism of Asian culture that the eastern world seems to have, white male/asian female relationships are one of the most common interracial relationships you will see.
And on the personal level, yes. I do like Asian girls.2
it´s scientifically proven that Asians are the most prefered of all ethnicities :D i like them too but i also like most other ethnicity3
Asian girls can be cute and sexy!
Asians are the best. You're popular, athletic and you get good grades. I think they feel as if they're not good enough for you.2
Of course, there are lots of pretty Asian girls.0
Your better then decent looking. In my opinion the guys don't come and ask you out is because they don't think they are good enough or because you have the best grades and are basically #1. Also, I'm not saying its a bad thing, but maybe your standards are to high. I know plenty of girls who have high standards but that might be the reason.0
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Wait until you go to college. You will get more chances. At highschool. boys are immature and mostly they wanted to have sex with hot and pretty looking girls only. they will dumb them after they get bored but yeah. Wait until you go to college. you will find someone will be interested in you..0
No pic? Can't tell with you but I fond Asian girls attractive sometimes. I also find white girls attractive sonetimes. And race can be pretty. Don't rush to date a guy who's worried about dating "the Asian girl"0
Yes, they do. In fact there's a fetish going on called "yellow fever".0
I approve of them sometimes.0
Yes I have seen plenty of attractive Asian women.0
Yes, a lot of guys do in fact like Asian girls0
I've dated an Asian. Best gf I've ever had1
I think you look cute. Yes guys like Asian girls I'm one of them. They may be shy.0
silly you!!! i love you so much;)0
If there is 1 reason why guys dont approach you, its probably because they think you are out of their league.
Honestly, you are really really cute :)
And I think the opposite might be even more true than what your saying. I personally suffer from the ''yellow fever'' :P
And im sure im not the only one :)
But I dont know what type of girl you are ( outgoing? shy and more reserved? ) that can play a bigger role, but believe me, you are really cute. Sure, some guys will prefer white girls, just like others would prefer black, or like me prefer Asians, but your look is defenitly not the reason why you are single :)
And, in most case also, even if you have a preference, that doesn't mean your not attracted to other races.
I would not say no to a really sweet white girl because she's not Asian or whatever.0
What Girls Said 6
I think you are really cute and pretty! Guys must be stupid or blind not to notice you!
i'm Asian (1/2 filipina, 1/2 white, but look mostly Asian. skinny, petite, 5' 2", 30B, 22 waist, 28 hips).
I am 20 now. In high school guys ignored me coz i looked like a stick. I only date white guys and being Asian it was hard to get noticed. I was a A student and guys avoided me coz I was "a smart Asian girl" It was like i had a disease or something.
Most guys saw me as a little 12 yo girl even tho i was 16, 17, & then 18. The first guy i went out with when i was 16, i had to ask him out to the sadie hawkins dance.
You are a cheerleader so that puts you in front of the guys a lot. Either you got to set your sights on a guy you want OR you could tell your gfs on the cheer team you are looking for a guy to ask you out. Gfs are good to help scope out guys. I bet there are a lot of guys that think you are HOT, but they either think you are too young (coz us Asian girls look younger than we are), or you come across as too smart for them.
Just so you know, i only dated Asian guys 1 or 2 times. i dont like how i got treated and i know you are not there yet, but Asian guys suffer from "little man syndrome" in the "package" dept. Plus, when they sweat. they smell sour. White guys sweat and as long as they dont have B. O., they smell sexy to me.
White guys treat me really good and to them, Asian girls are exotic and if they can date one, they count themselves lucky!
Being petite and cute is worth it, even if white girls with blonde hair have big boobs. Big boobs usually = 2 brain cells and not much else. Guys get tired of them after a while.
Just my opinion.
Good luck. Asking a guy out is not a bad thing and you get a guy you want.0
I notice that people feel most comfortable approaching their own racial background.
Perhaps, it's because they know they already share a mutual attraction to self (similar phenotype and characteristics) and background.
It puts more of a pressure for someone to introduce themselves to someone from another ethnic background.
They have to be willing to learn another culture.
And okay with facing possible judgment from parents and peers.
It's totally different when you approach a race different from your own.
You're also wondering, do they find my race attractive?
It's an added pressure.
The only people that show the most comfort in doing so are the open-minded and those that may have prior experience.
I think you are a cute girl.
How do you feel about yourself?0
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Relax! You look 14.. ? They probably find you intimating. Do people at school, you're adopted?0
Guys like girls, thats it. I also think you don't clearly understand the term "yellow fever" but it's your choice to date someone that claims that they have it ooeh ×-×.0
Guys like all types of girls0
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