Hi, i'm new to the forums, so here it goes:
From guy to guy, though girl's advice are appreciated too, how do you deal with being ugly.
Ever since i was a child i had a high self esteem, somehow I actually believed I was good looking, but it was alway my family telling me that, so I went through my first 14 years of life actually buying that idea, fair to say when i hit me how goddamn ugly I was I didn't take it easy.
I don't know how i didn't realize it before honestly, when i saw pictures of myself i'd just be like "man, well I guess i'm simply not photogenic".
On top of that i was always pretty weird, until 6th grade i went to a school with 12 students per classroom, tops, although it had very good academical level, but it felt a little for like, special children, even though it really wasn't, i have a "disease" called TDA which, while i supposedly have a much higher hq than an average person, it's downgraded by a lack of chemical connections in my brain already terrible social skills, which i have improved on a lot over the years, but not enough to fit in society, on 7thhat impair me of concentration and i'm also hyperactive, At elementary, i was one of the popular kids, but being only twelve, well it didn't mean much, so when 7th grade finally came, i went to one of the most expensive private schools in my country, and i had no way to compete, so I came in being stupid enough to make everyone notice me in a bad way, for a long time, i was bullied and made fun of, i met no girls and had no friends, until somewheree around 8th grade I became a confident fun person everyone liked being around, but one day everything changed again iand i was that weirdo again, i met this beautiful girl in class i have been dead for ever since, it's been almost two years, and it was my worst mistake, but looking at her only made me feel bad about myself, i'm not rich or fit, even slim, i'm ugly, unpopular, lonely, not by choice but that is how it is What now?
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You know, for most of your life as a man, being manly is what attracts women. Some girls like pretty boys, but generally speaking being 'cute' as a guy is a plus but not as much of a plus as you'd think. And somewhat ugly, but very masculine guys do fine.
I know you're on medications etc, but are you honestly putting in decent work to have as good a body as you can?
Is your hairstyle one that actually flatters you?
Do you dress in a way that suits your body?
If your social skills suck, make it a goal to work on improving them. Can you read people's expressions at all? T here are formal training methods to get better at it.
Be the best, most attractive version of you that you can be.0
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