A lot of girls and family members tell me I'm pretty. But no guys my age never tell me I'm pretty. I'm overweight. And a virgin. And I'm 19. I don't think I'll ever have a boyfriend cause of how ugly i am.
- Pretty46% (12)47% (8)47% (20)Vote
- Ugly54% (14)53% (9)53% (23)Vote
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First of all, one thing a lot of men notice first are eyes. That is what I first saw when I looked at your photo. When you smile your eyes brighten up and is a simple way to look even better. Additionally, you mention men hate curly hair - not true! The woman I have a major crush on has very curly hair. As for your weight, that is something you seem to already be battling with your 15/min workouts. That's great! But at the same time, workout for yourself, not for any guy. My piano teacher was much, much bigger than you and she found the right guy and was happily married. If any person makes you feel small because of your looks than they are not a mature person or must think they are a flawless. I know I'm not flawless - I'm really short. If I found you unattractive from your weight there is just a good a chance you could find me unattractive from my height. A lot of physical shortcomings can be made better by wardrobe and confidence. I walk with good posture and wear vertical stripes to look a little taller but also carry myself with a don't eff with me / can-do attitude.
As for your question... Are you ugly? No. Are you pretty? No. But you need to be you and not give a crap what someone labels you.1