Hi everyone. I'm 23 years old, recently finished my masters. I'm a female and I have never been kissed, had a boyfriend, dated, etc. I have a lot of friends from high school and college who have kids or are married, and I feel really ashamed that I have had no one. I feel like I can't get a guy to look at me. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed that I'm in my 20's and still have had no one like me or love me. When I was in HS, it didn't bother me that much because I thought college would change it, but it hasn't. I get really jealous of my friends too. They're husbands/boyfriends love them so much and give them everything.
Anyways, I feel very insecure and shy about the way I look. I feel ugly all of the time. I do things, like get my hair done, facials, exercise, etc. but I still feel like because I have never had a boyfriend, I'm ugly or unattractive. I can't talk to my friends about this because it's too personal and i don't want them to know. I really hope and dream that someday I'll find someone who will love me and think I'm pretty. It's what I think about at night before I sleep.
Below is a link to a recent photo of me. Can you please take the poll and give me your thoughts/feedback? I feel so low and sad right now.
- Yes, you're ugly and weirdVote A
- No, you're not.Vote B
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"Anyways, I feel very insecure and shy about the way I look. I feel ugly all of the time. I do things, like get my hair done, facials, exercise, etc. but I still feel like because I have never had a boyfriend, I'm ugly or unattractive."
Worst attitude ever. Change that immediatly! You cannot start with this concept. Accept who you are and how you are. This is the first step.
Having not a BF is not a reason or excuse to be unattractive or ugly because that's all relative! Someone in the future will like you.
Have you even been invited by some boys before? Because you didn't mention that at all.
<--- 20 Years old, virgin, never had GF or kissed somebody. Am I ugly?
Again, that is all relative. Someone likes me (not, that I know), someone does not. I deny being torn apart to the ground. If someone has a problem with my status: Deal with it. Plain and simple. Why? Because I carry my responsabilities. Because I choose my own destiny. Because I do not follow somebody else but make my own decisions in life. Because someone will regret, what they did and I avoided it.
Hope this helps :)1