Having a big butt and a small waist is the "fad" now, it's a pretty ridiculous one because most girls don't look like Nicki Minaj, Kim Kardashian or Iggy Azealia and it can make us avarage sized girls, with avarage proportions feel inadequate. I'm not saying that there aren't a wide range of things that men find attractive on a woman, but most people are highly influenced by the media and if a girl doesn't have a "fatass" than she's not dating material or she loses "attraction points". I see it all the time. 20-somethings obsessing over the size of their butts and waists believing that it will somehow make them more attractive. I never understood the hype, but apparantly it is a fad and where I live, guys won't seem to give you the time of day unless you look a certain way. Girls, how does this make you feel?
Girls: Do you feel discouraged that you don't fit the category of (Big butt, small waist)?
What Guys Said 8
if you cannot learn to validate yourself, all the external adulation in the world won't help you1
I like it even if your a small girl id like the small boobs or butt if your bigger id like the big butt and big boobs. its like if you had a larger head on a tiny body or a tiny head on a larger body it just doesn't look right1
Where I come from guys like small butts. I've never really understood this kardashian booty thing but I figure it's great for girls because it means there are guys who like your ass no matter how much junk you got in that trunk!0
I love a big kim k booty ;)0
Stop hitting on poor guys.
Most guys I know do not find that ideal. They'll work with it, but prefer smaller then that.0
honestly its more about the face for me i would go for nice face awful body (too skinny) over awful face nice body but i would go for nice body awful face if she's fat sorry if you think im harsh but im being honest i just feel like im going get ton of hate for saying that1
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What Girls Said 14
No, I don't feel discouraged at all. I don't have a big butt or big boobs and my waist isn't tiny but that's okay. I like my body the way it is. In fact, there's a full body image of me on my profile (just in case you were curious about my proportions), I'm kind of shaped rectangular-ish, but I feel pretty confident with how I look. Lol1
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Ehhh... I'm fine with my overall figure I mean sure my butt may nit be huge but it certainly isn't flat it's average and that's fine with.
But in general yes many guys like girls with big butts but not all of them do just like not every guy is into. girls with large chests.0
I don't have the biggest butt or smallest waist but I don't want to fit in. I'm different and oh well I will never look like someone else and I'm fine with that. You do what you can with what you have. Learn to accept it and love it. :) Embrace it don't hide it or feel bad. by the way any girl can do that, waist trainers help shrink your waist and there are creams and pills women can take to make their butt large and are inexpensive. Its no secret but I respect a woman who has a natural body and loves it then someone who is fake and pretends its real when its obvious that it isn't.0
I know what you mean. I'm only sixteen and I've tried so many diets, had thoughts about plastic surgery and shit, until I realized its not even worth it. But to be honest them kind of girls are usually only used for sex. If it's natural its okay but they shouldn't shame other bodies.0
Lol majority women don't have bodies like theirs and guys still like them1
nope i have a beautiful face and thats all that matters to me i know most men dont give a shit about the body if the face isn't attractive. since i have a beautiful face ill always have a line up of men no matter if i am too skinny, too fat or whatever. i wish every girl could understand this because its a shame to see beautiful girls insecure just because of there bodies. at the same time is bugs the hell out of me that ugly girls think that just because they have a nice body they can get men.0
I don't because I have a slim waist and a big bottom... and sometimes guys prefer "average" girls where I'm from. I don't let it bother me because there will always another guy who likes my body type.0
No, I love my body im not overweight or anorexic im at a healthy weight at my age. I also don't find celebrities big butts attractive or huge curves it just seems over done in my opinon0
Small everywhere. Do not care.0
I have a whole lot of titties to fill in for it, does that count?1
No, because I do have a big butt and small waist.0
Yes I do I rather look like anything but me... i have wide waist and wide butt not attractive at all0
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