please tell me.. should i lose weight.. m in love with a boy whose is 180cm tall.. So is my physical strucutre okay?
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First, your face plays a major role in who finds you attractive, so giving measurements means very little. Also, numbers like height and weight don't give any indication of where you carry the weight and your overall body shape.
Second, those numbers stretch well into obesity range. Some guys may find you attractive, especially if you have a nice face, but a lot of guys will find that kind of weight unattractive. It's not just a visual thing though. That much weight is unhealthy, and poor health makes for a poor partner. You won't be as physically capable, you won't have stamina, you'll find that you're passing on a lot of activities guys will want to do with their girlfriends (not just sexual, but social) because you won't have the energy for it. You'll also worry about how you look which will cause you to be shy and hesitant around guys you're attracted to, which means you're going to have an uphill struggle to get their attention. Also, just personally the weight will be bad on your body, you'll have joint pain and back pain as you get older, more risk of diabetes (which can set in younger than most people think), and so on. You should lose weight for your health and happiness, not just to attract guys.0