I'm sick and tired of other guys like my friends getting all the attention from women, they don't even have to say anything but women are attracted to them physically. when I look in the mirror I used to feel insecure now I believe I am actually what people tried to tell me all along and that is handsome. I no longer have confidence issues, but women just want to run away when they see me. what am I doing wrong?
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Well if it makes you feel better not every chick wants a blonde/fair guy. I prefer brown hair but I don't date a guy solely on hair color. I dated blonde, brunette, ginger and balding men. I guess I only dated the tolken tall/blonde/handsome guy once, I did feel it was a bit over rated.
I actually take a while to realize I find a guy attractive, usually I have to get a vibe he likes me first then I break down his looks/appearance and the way he acts and personality. For example I have a crush on this guy it took me about 2-3 times to see him to think if he is a potential crush and got a small sign he may like me, then about 6 months+/maybe 10 encounters (this being the longest amount of time to figure out but I was seeing someone else back then) and I realized this month I really like him and started flirting (being now single for a few months).0