.. but have no hesitation to put down a guy e. g. "your clothes don't match at all" or "you have poor dressing sense" or "your beard makes you look 20 years older, I don't like it" or "wow, you've put on a lot of weight" or "why did you cut your hair for".
Let's reverse the roles for the sake of gender equality.. I don't think many women would be able to take those comments.
I got shut down for telling a girl "say, I think curls would look really nice on you".
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You have to keep in mind that women are told from a young age that all they have to offer is their looks. It makes our appearance a very sensitive topic to us. I'm sure you've only made well meaning comments but sometimes they can come across as a guy wanting us to change or that we don't look good enough for them. It can be very hurtful.
Definitely keep giving compliments but just keep in mind how you phrase it, even if it's a very well meaning compliment.0