im not fishing for compliments and i dont want lies. neither rude comments. just honesty. i look bad in everything and i did the mistake to show off my body in public. shall i never show off my curviless body again?
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First off you're operating under a misconception. It seems to be very consistent among people with low self-esteem. You or another person have convinced you that looking 'bad' or 'good' is an objective standard. It isn't. There is no objective standard for what looks bad or good. It is an opinion.
That isn't to say that there aren't commonalities among people's views on what is attractive with respect to celebrities and what not but most of that is corporate brainwashing and there is still great variance on preferences because people are complex.
Human beings are genetically wired to seek out healthy symmetrical bodies for reproduction. As long as you're healthy you don't have much to worry about, I'd imagine.
I think your insecurity arrises from your mind trying to convince your body to improve itself to attract a mate. The bottom line here is that I don't think you should be so concerned with the public unless of course your goal is to attract a mate? If that's the case you'd be surprised to know how far your psychological prowess goes. In essence confidence goes A LONG way. Males respond to confidence and typically appreciate it as long as it's in balance.0