I'm 18 in a few days and I've never been asked out by a guy. Never been asked to homecoming or asked by a guy to prom while my friends all go with DIFFERENT dates to each dance! I'm sorta shy but Im pretty confident but not that confident like those popular girls. Thanks & be honest! Why don't guys seem to flirt with me or talk to me? Or ever ask me out?
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I didn't rate you for two reasons:
1- There's no 10
2- You deserve more than a 'rating'
In summary: You appear to be a very lovely young woman. I cannot answer your question why you're struggling getting dates because so many factors can affect this. I don't know what your girlfriends are 'offering' their dates that they become so popular, but there is no reason in my mind that you would not catch a man's attention.
Try being an upbeat fun person and become active in groups with activities you enjoy. With your looks and a pleasant personality the boys should come calling soon. Be kind and friendly even to guys not to your liking because you never know who you might meet!
Don't despair, you are very attractive with a beaming smile. I am certain your prospects will improve.
(From a dad with a married daughter)4