Okay, so I have both Indian and Hispanic ancestry. Unfortunately, that caused me to be a rather hairy girl. I hate it so much, but waxing is such a pain in the ass. I do shave my legs, bikini line, and armpits, but I also have hair on my stomach, lower back, and even a bit on my butt. Do guys really care that much about hair? I get complimented by guys on my looks, but then again, they've never seen me naked. Do guys expect girls to be hairless? This has been giving me anxiety as I've been getting more intimate with guys but my fear of them feeling disgusted by my body hair prevents me from getting too intimate. I can't imagine having to get full body waxes every 2 weeks (or even the super expensive laser hair removal treatments) just to keep some guy satisfied. And before anyone says oh girls expect guys to have no hair, I couldn't care less about the amount of body hair a guy has. Just saying.
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A guy who loves you will love you in your natural state, with hair without hair whatever. If he has a real problem with it, throw him to the curb. The whole hairless thing is actually a load of bullshit, and there's some really cool feminist theory on it, but basically your body hair is just fine and a partner can prefer you without it and still not be disgusted if you have it. I wouldn't even bother with the intensive treatments- just do what feels right for you! If you want a Brazlilian wax, go for it. If you want laser treatment, that's just fine! Even better, the Indian and Hispanic ancestry means you're a) probably gorgeous and b) it's part of your genes and it's normal. I mean have you ever seen someone with really pale red hair and eyebrows, but then heavy black makeup? The whole look just works as it is, naturally, and it's still so so nice. <31