Just curious because i was pretty average throughout high school but noticed that some attractive girls did find me attractive in college. I noticed through the mirror that I was good looking. I got bids to a top tier frat based on how they perceived my superficial qualities. But I never felt like wow I'm hot until senior year when I heard girls whisper he's hot or he's cute when i walked by them. I know that's really superficial but hearing that a lot really boosted my confidence and gives me the energy to work hard. How about you?
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I guess it's based on other people's reactions. How many people give you random compliments, remark on your looks, flirt with you, ask you out, etc. I think I only really grew into myself at around 18-19. Before that I wasn't too bothered with what I looked like. I'd still get compliments and people interested in me, but once I hit a certain age it kinda took off and I noticed it more. Well, either the guys got bolder, or I got prettier. Does boost your confidence, and I feel very comfortable in my skin, but I think I'm past the point where I let it get to my head or anything. There are plenty of people better, more beautiful, and all that.0