I'm a senior. My high school has over 1600 kids. I've NEVER been asked to a homecoming or prom (there's been 7 school dances so far & I've always gone with friends). I'm a little shy but I'm nice. And I'm Not shy to the point where I don't talk to any boys. I'm just not really friends with guys.
***I hear that guys ask girls they don't know that well to school dances all the time so why don't I ever get asked?***
EVEN 9TH & 10TH GRADERS GET ASKED TO PROM :/
Have you seen girls that are around my physical attractiveness level be asked to prom? My friends always get asked by at least one guy to each school dance. I wonder if the reason I've never been asked to a dance or asked out by a guy in general is because I'm not pretty enough. Please be honest!
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You are slightly above average in my opinion. But that means that you shoudnt expect insanely hot guys to ask you out, expect guys that are also slightly above average. If you have been turning down guys, the only thing you can do is lower your standards. If NO guys have asked you out, its probably because the only guys that are 'on your level' are too insecure to ask a girl out. Next time you see an average to slightly above average guy sitting alone with nobody to talk to, go introduce yourself to him. Make sure you smile a lot and makes yourself as least intimidating as you can be. Be flirtatious and make it obvious that you ate into him. Give him your number and talk for a couple of days. If he doesn't ask you out after a couple of days of talking, ask him out. Keep your head up, be confident, if you want someone go for him!2
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