I can't count how many times I've had friends moms, grandmas nurses, moms friends, older people say how hansom I am.. surprised that im single blah blah blah.
Then I get the girls that im not the slightest bit attracted to and have hardly any idea who they are say im the hottest person theyve seen. That makes me feel bad that the feeling isn't mutual and they end up asking if I would ever consider dating them and I have to say No.
Then there are the girls that I find atractive. the conversation usually goes Her: "Hey can I tell you something?" Me: "Yeah" Her: "I think you're really cute, we should hang out" Then I never hear from her again...
Part of me knows im not ugly... Part of me feels like all these people are full of shit and give me a pity trip.
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Don't feel like crap, I know what it's like, when you think you're okay and then the next second you feel like you're not. And don't feel bad either, you don't owe anyone anything. It doesn't really matter what you look like, if you wear confidence, that's honestly more attractive than physical attractiveness. My advice is to just block out what people say and listen to what you think of yourself, your opinion of yourself is far more valid than anyone else's. So if you don't like the girl you hardly know that asked you out, who cares? You've got a whole life ahead of you and many amazing people to meet and know.1