Ok, so I've recently become single and back on the dating scene. As of late though i've been realizing just how hard it is to talk to girls because I am deemed as a "player" or as a girl told me a "douchebag" by appearance lol Now I dont think I am at all, im easy going I like to read, im social and friendly and im actually pretty nice, but it's not portrayed by how I look. When I finally get to talk to girls they always say just how surprised they are by me cause they say when they se me they think im stuck up or just bad news. What can I do to change this and why do girls think that? Look at my profile pic and tell me thats what you get when you see me, or you can look at my profile. I need to know if i should switch something up.
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some may assume you are a player because you have a 'pretty boy' face and MANY assume girls come easy to you and you go through them like socks. sad, but true. some don't take the time to get to someone and judge based on looks.. maybe they would think you aren't approachable and might feel like you are 'above their pay grade' so to speak. i don't KNOW! i'd talk to ya, but i talk to EVERYONE. and just be YOU, seriously. laugh, and be social and nice as always, assume you are already. the right REAL girl will give ya a chance, not one who assumes the worst.0