I know this'll sound like I'm just complaining, and am too young. But I'm thirteen, and I genuinely know I'm ugly. I'm not trying to say this in an attention-whore kinda way even though it sounds like it. I have a long nose that protrudes out, I have a lot of acne, I have a an uneven skin color, I'm kinda chubby, I have a fat face, and Am flat in my boobs and butt. The only thing I kinda like about me is the color of my eyes. I have no talents in anything like drawing or singing. I've never had a boyfriend or anybody say they had a crush on my my entire life. i just feel like I won't have anybody love me if I can't look at least average. I'm can't afford and am too young for plastic surgery. I've never had anybody say I'm pretty unless I say that I think I'm ugly, and all the girls compliment everyone else at my school. im having extreme self-confidence issues and can't talk to new people because I'm scared they'll laugh at me when I leave. Even my friends said I looked like I had a squidward nose and I just had to pretend to laugh with them. I just don't know what to do, and need someway to make myself feel or look better (Im terrible at putting on makeup). And please don't say looks don't matter, because I know that they do a lot.
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Being an extremely self conscious person myself, I understand your pain. Just try your best. Most of the not so great looking girls in my school don't look so great mainly because they don't try to look great. Their hair is always greasy and it just seems like they don't try. First of all just make sure your clean! Wash your hair everyday if it gets greasy easily and wash your face every morning also, that should help with the acne. Next, take care of that acne! I had a huge acne problem when I was 11 and 12ish (yeah I know I'm an early bloomer but whatever) and i suggest acne cream. You're going to get the occasional pimple but to reduce the acne I suggest clean and clear. It's an over the counter acne cream. You can wear it during the day or at night, it is clear so you can't really notice if your wearing it during school, and it's not gooey or anything. If that doesn't help ask your doctor to prescribe something for you. Also some guys don't like girls with big boobs and a big butt. If your chubby then maybe make healthier choices. You don't have to turn anorexic or anything but maybe cutting out pop and fast food and just saving it for occasion would be a smart idea. If you need any help or just feel like talking to someone feel free to message me anytime :)0