Ok. My bestfriend is really pretty in my opinion. Others always compliment her but she has a low self esteem. I mean really low she avoids me a lot of times and shuts the world out. When I ask her why... well I had to beat her down... she told me she hates herself because she has a big head. Like I don't think so. Whats wrong with these women! So I am here trying to prove a point. Guys what makes a girl unattractive? Is it a turn off if her head is big?
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First of all an unattractive trait is something that makes me not want you. Very few women have unattractive traits. A big head is not an unattractive trait it may just not be an attractive one. It would be a neutral trait. Now I don't know your friend and I doubt she has a big head and if she does I'd still have to see it personally to know whether or not it was attractive so I can't comment on that. I do have a list of unattractive traits though. 1.) negativity. Nothing is more of a put off than a girl who's always down on herself. Nobodies perfect we all have faults and if you spend all of your time focusing on yours I know eventually I'm going to end up either becoming your counselor or breaking up with you. So that's a huge turn off. 2.) arrogance. On the other side of that coin I hate it when girls think they're better than others. I love confident women, (Aka women who understand eventually if they work for it they can do anything) but arrogance to me is just a person running from their insecurities. I'd rather have an insecure girl than an arrogant one. 3.) choosing ignorance. I don't mind when someone doesn't know something even when it's extremely basic common sense kind of stuff. I don't care how smart a girl is. But if I can tell that you purposefully avoid learning or you choose to believe things despite looking at a wealth of information that disagrees with you, I just loose attraction. 4.) victims. I really dislike it when a girl walks up and says all her exes were horrible people. If you can't take a shred of responsibility for your actions I'd rather not date you. 5.) alright this is where my superficial stuff starts. Makeup. I don't like it. You've got acne? So what. Show it to me. Don't hide your face. Despite what the advertisements say I've rarely seen makeup that actually made someone look better to me. 6.) high heels. I just think they're stupid. 7.) smell. Bathing is a must. Perfume in moderation or not at all. 8.) Lying. It's unnecessary1