I've struggled in this department for years and years (the few times that i have been in a relationship i got insanely lucky, was cheated on every last instance), but is it my looks that are throwing me back into the shadows? Am I THAT undateable?
If you haven't seen my other questions, I'm 22 years old and was diagnosed with asperger's since childhood. I've found ways to cope with some of the social issues but i'm not perfect at them. I still have basic issues saying "hi" to people i'm not comfortable with unless they say it first. A major issue is friends, which I have very little of right now (I focused more on work, making sure I had money in my wallet and not getting drunk at night. I don't drink or smoke). Places like bars/clubs are high anxiety places for me if i'm just by myself, even during off-peak hours. Even coffee shops (don't drink coffee or tea) are too high of an anxiety zone for me.
When I try to gather up the strength to try and initiate conversation or even a hug, my mind overloads and I shut down. There have been instances where I can't even make basic sentences by pulling away from trying to hug someone.
(Couldn't find too recent photos, i'm not a selfie person or photogenic.)
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you look good I bet a lot of women find you attractive. you've got a really strong jawline lol (good thing)1