So I've been single for most of my life I'm 19 years old and I've only ever had one guy come up to me tell me he's interested there's been other guys but it was only 3 over social media who were older then me. I don't know it sucks because I feel as if even if a guy did like me he's gonna find someone better looking. I think I'm attractive people tell me that here on gag I'm gorgeous but in real life I feel like guys don't notice me.. I am a very friendly person but I don't go out of my way to make conversation with any guys.. Mostly because I'm afraid I won't be their type.. so rejection basically but also I feel like guys my age are only after the girls who smoke weed go to parties get drunk.. I can't seem to find someone who doesn't care if a girl doesn't do that... I just needed to rant not really a question
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''all your life'' .. you are 19 my friend.. very very young. Guys are shy and are afraid of rejection.. and at your age.. they want sex and fun... they are afraid of seriousness. don't be focused on results.. have fun with guys as friends.. laugh joke , tease... i am not interested and was never interested in drugs or drunk people... but i like open people who seem social and at ease with me.. if you are stressed, frowning and sitting away by your own.. you give signals that say '' leave me alone'' even if you don't mean that...
2- Be social for the sake of being social.. not to get guys
3- Have fun with guys.. go out to trips , events,
4- Laugh and crack jokes. get interested in what they do
5- give them indirect invitations... to the guy you like you say'' i wonder why guys don't approach the girl they like any more... people are very shy these days.. they should take it easy and chill''
I have many other points but these will get you started.
I just approached a girl yesterday on the street and she loved it ! gave me the puppy eyes and we are trying to set a date. I am sure you will get one pretty soon. Dont fret..0