I have no idea how to broach the subject with him, or what it will mean for me if he turns me down. I know I have to tread lightly. Any advice would be helpful.
Do you find him as sexy as I do or am I just caught up in some "daddy" fantasy? (I attached his picture to this posting.)
Okay, don't flame me for this. I am 23 and started a job with an engineering firm about six months ago. My position isn't bad and the company is great. My boss is a demanding person, he is around 50, I would guess, but has been fair and helpful. Sometime after starting in the job, I began to think about him at night. He is so much older than me that I really didn't think much about it.
As time has gone on, however, I have found myself noticing him more and more. He commands a lot of authority at work but has always treated me well. He has never come on to me or given me any indication that he is interested but I can't help thinking of him. He has a really nice body and he must go to the gym a lot because I don't know many people my age that have bodies as nice as his. I find it harder and harder to get him out of my head.
I am trying to figure out if I should ask him out or see if he would like to have a drink after work. I don't want to risk my job. I am also torn about the age difference between the two of us. I am only 23. Have any of you ever found an older man attractive?
- attractiveVote A
- not attractiveVote B
- too old to tellVote C
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I understand and it's totally acceptable to admire someone of your father's age but such relationships doesn't turn out to be successfull in long run (eg- Jim carrey and anchal Joseph). He's probably your father's age and you may regret it when you'll be 50 and he would most probably die.1