I receive compliments regularly on my appearance, but I've realized that most guys probably aren't attracted to me because I'm exceptionally good-looking... they go for me because I seem "chill" & "approachable". In other words, I appeal to them because I'm not as overtly attractive - or "intimidating" - as other women are. And after realizing this, I feel barely a step above ugly.
So I'm tired of looking boring and want to spice things up. What do you all think? How do I get from where I am now to hot? Is it possible?
... And yes, I'm aware that some men may say they don't care for "high-maintenance" or "hot" women. But let's face it, we all know they like to look at them; and this is just as much for myself as it is for the attention of men.
I'm reposting this because I think people misread the question last time I posted. Now ALL of these pictures are of me.
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I think you're beautiful the way you are :) but if you're asking for tips to give yourself a whole new look, I can do that too :)
I love your hair without the bangs. I like how nice and straight it looks, but if I were you I'd style it in a way that give it more volume/appears not so limp. You could clip one side away from your face or you can part it slight off-center :)
If it's about taking photos, I'd say a more flattering angle for you would be from above (not like high up in the air, just raise your phone a little higher :) )
I like your nice and friendly-looking eyebrows, but you can always visit a salon and have them style them, then just maintain them at home :)
For your complexion, you have really nice, near flawless skin, but you can make it look healthier by drinking lots of water and scrubbing your skin with a natural fiber loofah to exfoliate and get rid of the dead skin :) that'll make your skin really glow :D
You can wear lipstick (don't do for really harsh colors, look for a classy shade that will compliment you) just for a touch of makeup, or you can always go all out and wear foundation, eyeshadow, blush, etc.
.. but ultimately you really are pretty and you don't have to compare yourself with other girls! :)1