So one of my friends is tall, brunette, half Spanish and half Danish, and has a big butt and a fairly good body. My other friend is short, blonde, Danish and Swedish, and has the most insane blue eyes I've ever come across. The brunette is single and the blonde has a boyfriend. Compared to them, I feel very plain and boring since I am of medium height, completely Danish, pale, thin body (not in the good way), and a tiny butt. Additionally, both of them are very popular and even though I know that it mostly has to do with their amazing personalities, I can't help but think that they are more popular than me because they are much more attractive in terms of looks. Out of all of my friends in school (around 5), I am the only virgin. Even though all of my friends are one year older than me (they are 18, I am 17), I know that they all had sex before they were 16. Additionally, I'm a really shy person, which most likely has to with my low self-esteem, but I feel that neither of those two of my friends are super outgoing. This makes me jump to the conclusion that they are much more attractive looking than me, which just sends me on a downward spiral. Whenever we go to parties together, some guy usually comes up to my single brunette friend and the blonde sticks to her boyfriend, which leaves me alone with little to do and no one to talk to, since my other friends usually don't go to parties. So my question is, how do i stand out compared to my two ridiculously good looking friends?
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you should be proud that you're different. let me tell you something:
never put yourself down because of anyone or anything because it doesn't help yourself or anyone else for that matter. you're beautiful just the way you are, inside and outside. :)
as terms for your looks, maybe you're bored of your looks. experiment and try something new. try new clothes, look up different makeup tutorials, try new tips to edge up your look, try new things YOU like, not anyone else. overall, if you're willing to do this, do this for YOU... and no one else.
and as for people, meet new people by attending different clubs or things like that, find new ways to get to know people more, get out more, see the world. i know this sounds cheesy but you know, it's true. remember that there's more to life than hanging around with lots of friends... and plus, the friends you need to find are true friends that'll stick around for long run.
soz, if you find that i may seem bossy, but at the end of the day... it's your decision. hope this helps. :)0