As a 17 year old black girl whose 5'1 and about 117lbs I hate my frame and body as of now. Before I was kind of proud of my 36 d's but now as i look at videos and things like that i don't like them as much. I wish all that fat could go to my butt. I mean in my opinion it's not flat but I would like it to be bigger so I can fit in with my African culture more. A LOT of black guys don't care about breasts at all it's all about that *** and now I wish i was blessed with a more womanly figure. I really hate them now and i really want a bigger lower body to balance things out. I've worked out on squats, ankleweight kickbacks, leg press, leg extension, leg curl, jump rope, and split squats (sometimes). Since School is over and that was my only access to the gym, for the summer i have to give up on working out but i'll get get back up next year. I'm insecure about my body because i always hear about how black girls have fat ***** but i don't instead i have boobs and now i'm self conscious.
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Honey your body sounds great. You don't need big bum to be sexy. All black women don't have big butts thats just another silly stereotype along with all black guys are into big butts. I bet that there are plenty guys out there who think you are hot. Don't let the videos and media make you feel insecure for something that you were once confident about. I kinda know how you feel though I would rather had big boobs instead of a big butt.
I hope you gain confidence in your body and rock what you got. x0