I know guys would never be honest to a woman's face about the topic so I was just wondering what your honest opinion is when it's a private discussion :)
Most Helpful Guy
Stretch marks vary in visibility and can detract from looks. But generally they are not that noticeable and do not diminish a woman's appearance.
Small scars generally do not detract from her appearance, either.
But I know exactly what you are talking about as to the flap. It is very noticeable and would be very hard for you to accept (you meaning the one with that flap). It isw detracting in general, but can be covered, even by most bikinis. The only way to get rid of it is more surgery. It does not tighten up with exercise like most areas. But if a guy is really impressed by your body, that little area will not be that bad for him. And if he loves you, he is most likely impressed by your body, even if others are not.0
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone has scars and other imperfections, how often do the ones on other people matter to you?
I use to be embarrassed about a large surgical scar I have on my arm, but I've realized people rarely ever notice it (and it can be easily seen.) I've had several men ask me how I got it when in bed, and the usual response is "wow. That's cool" and then life goes on. Most people would never give a scar or stretch mark a second thought. We all have them, they are a part of the story that makes each of us who we are. Personally, I would want a person that is shallow enough to see and judge a scar over the person that I am to leave my life before he ever entered it.2