Honest Opinions. I know this question has been asked on here before but I had to know for myself.
What do you do when you go to have sex with a girl with ugly boobs? Would you ever dump a girl because of it?
My boobs are small (though I wear a 32D), one is slightly bigger, and they are not very round. They also have large areolae (in comparison, since I have small boobs) would you consider these ugly? They are most likely like this due to having an eating disorder for a long time, including on and off in the present. Don't give me a B. S. answer saying that I should search the posts similar to this and don't link me to another thread. I need to know this so I can either fix them or accept my ugly boobs. This has been holding me back (confidence-wise) for a long time. And though I've had sex before, I have never really shown anyone my boobs. I really just want to be open with my boobs when it comes to sex but I do not want to lose a guy. (Do not say, if you lose them then they weren't worth keeping, because even if that's true, I'd still rather save myself the embarrassment and keep them then get hurt and have a lowered self esteem.) Considering attaching a picture.
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It just depends.
The roundness and firmness is really desirable. I don't like large areolas. The smaller the better, for me, to an extent. But, it depends on how large. If they take up... 50 percent? of the surface area of the boob, then, that's ehhhhhh. To me. Like pepperoni nips aren't bad, but salami nips are offputting to me. I would consider them ugly. A lot of guys don't care. Boobs are boobs, and they're almost always awesome. But, as long as they're somewhat round and somewhat firm, it really doesn't matter. Boobs are boobs, and they are awesome.
But, don't worry about the difference in size. That's natural. It's the same for guys testes. Based on some random pictures, 32Ds don't look small.
Really, it's hard to know without a reference. I'm not saying that just at a shot at seeing boobs. Boobs are everywhere online. It's just really hard to tell based on a description.
But, it's just okay if you don't show your boobs to a guy. I mean, he'll be pretty distracted by the activity. xD He might want to see them, sure. But, just let him know that you don't want to, and most guys would understand, I think. Hell, I've met some girls that don't ever want the lights on (really pretty girls). Society is pretty harsh on female appearance, so most girls are insecure about something.
I'm not sure how you would change them. Of course, breast implants are always a possibility, if you're really that insecure about them. That would fix the issue, and help your self-esteem a lot, too, probably. They don't have to be large. I think most guys prefer medium sized boobs, anyhow.2