for some days, i believe i'm 'above average' or even 'pretty', cuz many guys like me and i've had quite many guys calling me pretty. but other days, when i hear people talking bout me like 'A: isn't she pretty?' 'B: whaaat? no.', i suddenly get very insecure, gloomy, frustrated, and i just wanna cry...:/ and even when my friends jokingly tell me 'you look ugly, creepy', i laugh at the moment, but i seriously think about it over and over and feel like what the hell is the problem with my face. if im not pretty like some people say, why do i get many guy strangers' interests, smiles, and blushes. my feature is not curvy or glamorous, just average. i dont wear slutty, i like casual and classic fashion. so i should stop rambling... i just wanna get the feeling of SECURITY. and most of the time it's really hard. any advice? thank you...:)
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People have different tastes and some won't like what others love.
For example there was one woman many found beautiful, but then she was on tv and my dad walked by and he said: eeeww what a monster is that (he actually meant it).
So stop caring so much about others judgement of you :) Obviously you are pretty since many people think so and you think so yourself. Some may not think your all that pretty and so what :) You can't be the most beautiful of the world, NO ONE can :) people will always have different tastes and preferences. I mean some people only like very skinny girls and others only heavy girls. There is soo much variation.
it really doesn't matter that much.
But I remember at your age I was always worried about it to. I was very popular in school and lots of guys were after me. But somehow when a girl would call me ugly I would be devestated. I2