I know that might sound like a loaded question but let me explain. So, for as long as I can remember, I've been made fun of for my looks and I don't mean the "haha you're nose is big" people would tell me I should kill myself because I'm so ugly. But recently I've noticed more people (well, women mostly) complimenting my looks, which would be awesome if I was into women but I'm not. I've gone a few dates with guys and they always say they don't understand how I'm signle because "I'm so pretty" and I guess I'm confused about it because it wasn't until like a year ago guys stopped calling me ugly. But yet I'm never approached by guys my age, it' usually always men in their middle ages. When ever my friends and I are out, they get flirted with and I pretty much get ignored, but when I'm with a guy on a date, he says I'm too pretty to be single. He's probably just saying that to get me in bed with him but... I don't know. From all what I listed please tell me from a guy's perspective, am I ugly? Is that why I'm not being approached ever? Thanks in adanve.
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There are many girls that are attractive and don't get approached. It can be due to all sorts of things. Sometimes the guys are intimidated, others they don't think she's approachable. Also, you've said that you do go on dates with guys so they obviously think you're attractive. You probably just notice your friends being flirted with more because you're insecure about your looks due to the experiences you described.
I'd imagine that you are pretty. Guys have said it, girls have said it, you get dates and the people who doubt your looks sound like tools.
Also, the people who made fun of your looks are total arseholes who are best ignored. While I know it can be hard to forget the bad memories, don't believe them., They are complete idiots.1