I'm 14 and I have anorexia, I'm trying to stop self harming, I have anxiety and depression and I get beat up almost everyday at school just for being weird, I'm small for my age so I don't have the nerve to stand up for myself, sometimes my best friend stands up for me but they aren't always around... I'm not really looking for a boyfriend but does this make me seem less attractive... or too weird... Does this just make me seem like I'm not worth anyone's time?
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Yes, it does. Humans are naturally attracted to healthy people. You clearly aren't healthy mentally and thus makes you unattractive.
Generally speaking your best bet would be to slowly working on why you are anorexic and self-harming. The anorexia and self-harm is a symptom of deeper-lying issues and you certainly will have to confront and work them out earlier or later.
Anorexia and self-harm is often linked to a disliking for yourself as well as a self-punishment by not allowing yourself any pleasure (the pleasure of eating in this case, but chances are you might also not have any sex-drive) as well as the actaul punishment of the self-harm. Work those things out, start liking yourself and the drive for anorexia and self-harm will decrease by itself as a result.
Also try alternatives of self-harm if you can't keep yourself from it. There are ways to release that drive without doing permanent damage (=scars). Google is your friend here.0