So ever since I put on weight I'm finding it really hard to get acceptance from girls. And I'm not talking about girls out my my league, I'm talking about girls that are in mine. I wouldn't say I'm obese but I'm a big guy. 250 lbs 6'1. My flirting skills are not amazing but their not bad either. I would say their average. is it due to a lot of guys being into thick girls? I mean thinking about it it's not a hard task for a thick overweight girl to end up with a guy who's in shape but the opposite is very rare. I've even seen girls that are obese that are with guys that are in shape. But were does that leave us (bigger guys)?
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I agree that each gender has some tough social stereotypes/guidelines to live up to, but as far as weight goes for men, its really more of an issue for women. A man can be ugly as fuck and women are expected to be super models. Im tired of guys calling girls fat that aren't even overweight! Why can't we focus on peoples personalities before appearance? I understand that people need to have mutual attraction in order to be in a relationship but does it really need to be a huge factor? Just irritates me.0