Whenever I get dressed up and feel really good looking I actually get less attention from guys, it seems. For instance, this barista who checks me out/stares at me seemed very neutral today considering that I was dolled up and he usually seems like "wow" with me when I'm wearing jeans and baggy stuff. Maybe he was just having an off day but he didn't even seem to notice I was pretty made up (I rarely wear any makeup and today I did). Any ideas? It feels like when I try it's not even worth the effort - especially with regard to makeup.
I dress up for events, not guys, by the way.
dont wanna post pics sorry.
Most Helpful Guy
That's because makeup only makes women think they look "more presentable", but that doesn't mean males actually find them more attractive. In fact, they just look weird. Whenever I see someone with makeup on, I have to start dismantling the unnecessary paint from their face in my head to determine whether they'd normally be attractive or not.0
Most Helpful Girl
It might be because you appear to high status or high in standards. I know very good looking woman who don't get hit on at all when they walk into a room full of men because they appear unapproachable - like the guy feels too inferior around her so does not hit on her. It may also be because they don't like the style of your outfit. As a rule - the comfortable and approachable girls get hit on more than the super hot ones.0