This may sound very shallow, and if I were a boy I would totallllly put this aside from loving someone. But sadly, I have depression and anxiety, so with my body hair (arms, legs, back, bum, all that jazz) I feel so insecure to the point where I'm used to waxing both arms and legs every week. I'm 14, and I've an athletic body (you know ; what I mean.) I have light brown skin (not tan, just light brown) and my hair is very dark brown, so it's visible. I get a lot of compliments from friends/fam, but being bullied for 7 years XD I totally, absolutely, cannot, and never will agree with them. I don't talk to boys very often because I'm pretty sure... this hairy body of mine isn't the best impression...
I have an online/long-distance reltionship with a good friend from school, who does know of my flaws and stuff, but I still feel like he'd break up with me the second he'd see me.. I've realized holding it in wasn't the best (sleeping turns into a job for me) and so instead of straight up asking him, I'd ask you guys instead. Also, I will talk to him about it, but only once i'm ready, it bothers me very much, and i wouldn't want to keep this from him.
But anyway, enough of me
Are there any guys or girls out there who would like to share with me there opinion or experience on this?
Thank you very much <3 <3 <3 It would help me out greatly
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I've always disliked almost all body hair. I even remember being very repulsed when I was 6 or 7 y/o, seeing a big man get out of a hot tub at a hotel, who had an incredibly hairy back along with all the rest. So I'm not just saying I don't like it so women they will be shamed into shaving or waxing. I don't like it period. Never have. Especially on me, lol!1
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