I have tried online dating for 5 years now and I have hardly gotten so much as a nibble. The closest I have come is a single date and I got dumped immediately after that. I don't think I am the ugliest guy out there, but my experience sure seems to say that :-(
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Here's the issue: you are essentially putting it all on the superficial and not reflecting on how you are portraying yourself. If you come across as a guy who thinks he's "not the most hideous guy" and like you assume that someone won't like you based solely on looks, girls pick up on that low self esteem and will put the brakes on before things even get started.
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