You know it's just... I'm 17 and I feel like boys keep no interest in me - I've never had sex or boyfriend or first kiss... Is it by the way I look? I don't consider myself as mean or bitchy or arrogamt or I don't know... I'm little shy but... uh I don't know. I feel like shit.
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Dudet, you are beautiful. So first off, don't worry about your looks! They are certainly not stopping you from a relationship.
Most likely it is the shyness. Personally, I am shy (not to mention blush easily 😓) and that has been the main reason why I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend or sex like you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think I'm to the point of ugly, so it isn't that what is stopping me. Just in case you are ashamed of this, don't be. There are plenty of people out there who have been like this, and very very few would consider this a turn off.
Shyness however, can make finding a date difficult. Especially if you are a shy introvert. It makes talking to people more difficult / flirting more difficult, which makes getting an SO harder. It also makes it much harder to build confidence to ask someone out or whatever.
I suggest you try harder to talk to newer people at social events. Maybe join a club that you are interested in-- you can usually find really neat people in there... And who knows, maybe that could turn into something. :)
In any case, know that you are NOT failing because of the way you look. You are beautiful! Just be a little more confident, a little more flirty and I'm sure you'll find a guy worth your time sooner than you think :)
Good luck in your search for a boyfriend :D0
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