First of all I dont care or want "youre not ugly answers" I have a serious issues which doesn't even let me leave my house. I am really ugly and I get bullied for it a lot yes even at my age. I get put down, ridiculised and I have serious anxiety even for going to work. I work out and try to keep nicely dressed but to be honest I'm always gonna be ugly no matter what I do.
What bothers me is that I have attempted suicide just because I have looked in the mirror before and didn't like myself the way I look. I'm always going to be alone due to my looks (yes for the last god damn time looks matter to women too I will ignore all "confidence is sexy" comments) Yes I am on fucking medicine now dont flag my question as suicidal, jesus why are people so stupid and can't read between the lines
I have been going to theraphy and I sometimes skip the sessions because I don't like other people looking at me even going to work for eight hours is pushing it for me but I do it cause well bills.
What can I do to not feel so badly about being hideous?
Most Helpful Girl
Google hideous people... do you look like them? No Okay next step: Google ugly men... Do you look like them? No
If you feel so ugly why put the effort into working out, dressing nicely and going to get your lip pierced? Seems that sometimes you don't see yourself that way. Think about what is different in those moments. If therapy isn't helping then I really don't know what to tell you. Your aren't ugly even if you don't want to hear that. You need to get past that thought because you are not a child anymore that has to listen to bullies and you have other qualities that make you a good person.1
Most Helpful Guy
What surprises me is that you've put your picture in your profile. Kinda ballsy from someone who finds himself so ugly... Unless it's not your face?
Ok let's say your hideous. So what? What are you gonna do about it? Maybe you should just stop worrying about it. Often, the anticipation of something bad is worse than the bad thing itself. Like the fear you feel before jumping off the plane versus the feeling you get going down. It's much worse before... (I imagine, I am just making a point). What if you made peace with the fact you are the single most ugly person on the planet? There is nothing you can change to your face, so you may as well learn to live a semi normal life with it no? Even if people laugh at you everywhere you go, it's still better than living your life inside your house and achieve nothing no? What's the worst thing that people can do to you? I am sure none of them even came close to wanting to kill you. Yet, you tried to kill yourself. What you are doing to yourself is much worse than what they are doing to you ! Also, maybe there are some assholes out there, but not everybody gives a shit how ugly you are. They could talk to a human sized cockroach without a problem since they're not trying to have sex with it. Also, most people don't know you and you are not even important enough for them to consider how you look. Don't overestimate yourself in their eyes and think it even matters to those people.
Ok, you're ugly... so what? Where do you go from there?1
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