He said that he had a harder time seeing beauty in me... When I got upset, he said "I like all women equally, it's just easier to see the beauty in white women". When I asked him if he ever thought that I was beautiful he said "Yeah, you're fine". It let me feeling very bad about myself... Do you think that I'm pretty? He also told me "No offense, but I always liked white girls and then you came along". It made me feel like he never saw as beautiful during our relationship :( What made all of his hurtful remarks so odd to me is that My ex is Biracial.
Please be honest...
I was probably never beautiful to him.
Most Helpful Guy
First off, hello! Before I say anything, I do have a simple question for you. Why on Earth would you ever date a man like this? What did you see in him in the first place?
-For men, the first they notice about a woman is her beauty AND then her personality.
-A man should be there for his girlfriend and never make her feel bad and insecure about herself.
For your boyfriend to make remarks about you like this, that is totally not okay and he seems like a very petty and insecure person. You are better off without him.
Now... are you beautiful? Personally, and I am not lying, I think that you are gorgeous! Any man would be lucky to have you by his side. The real question is, do you think you're beautiful?
And finally... I always hear women saying this, "where are all the good men?" or "Why do men take good women for granted?" Truth is, only the assholes take good women for granted. There are so many good men out there, but they... WE... often get overlooked.
Again... you are a gorgeous woman, and I think you have a lot to offer... you just need to separate the good men from the assholes. If you meet a man who is college educated, has goals, knows what he wants out of life and genuinely enjoys spending time with you... that is a man you want in your life (these are the type of young men that are usually over looked until later in life).
If you ever want to talk, need advice or just want to vent... certainly send me a private message. I always reply.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yup, you're pretty!0