I am almost 20 years old and never had a serious boyfriend! I think part of the reason is because I am so shy around men but very outgoing in social situations, perhaps I am a bit intimidating. One of my biggest fears is putting myself out there and being completely shot down or laughed at. I'm not fishing for compliments just curious, maybe trying to work up some nerve here, if I hit on you, would you be flattered or offended? Any tips or advice?
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Whenever I see girls ask questions like these, before I even read the description, my first assumption is that they never approached a guy before. Girls feel as though it is impossible for them to "initiate" and then complain when they have been single for a long time. Trust me when I say that guys would be very happy if you made their job easier for once. Women want equality but when it comes to dating, they don't seem to want it and complain when they stay single. I never had anything close to a girlfriend until just under a year ago. I'm shy too, and so are many other guys yet we always put lots of effort into finding relationships, mustering up some courage when needed only to get rejected. Sorry if my assumption about you was wrong but that's usually the case.1