What do you think of this kind of a man? Should I just suicide? It's funny that my mother keeps telling me "appearance does not matter".
Most Helpful Girl
Appearance DOES matter, it's just not the only thing that matters.
So many people are convinced they'll never find anyone because they aren't Hollister-model-good-looking. Surely your options are wider if you look like Ryan Gosling and have his money and fame to go with it. Sure. But most people have a bias against dating someone transgender and yet trans people find love. Most people have a bias against dating a quadriplegic and yet quadriplegic people find love. I think you should spend less energy feeling bad about whatever disadvantages you perceive yourself to have and more energy on enjoying and playing up the things that are good about your life.0
Most Helpful Guy
I am 5'8", 116 pounds, and the front part of my hair is gray while the rest is mostly brown. Embarrassing but I'm hanging in there. If you focus on other parts in life then your looks won't be so bothersome to you. Give it a try. I'm focusing on my career and trying to reach my goal in it. A successful career will make me happy, bring me money, and if my looks bother me then I can always change it. There is no benefit from suicide. So please remove suicide from your list of options. If you focus on a goal in life and work for it then you will reach it and nothing else will stop you from being proud of yourself.2