this has become a serious usue enough to get me on anti depressants they help a bit they keep me from self harm and suicide attemps. Great I'm at the very least safe from harming myself but I still feel really bad about my looks. I KNOW I'm ugly and I also get told I am on a daily basis. I live in a country where looks are THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT thing. If you look ugly you won't even get a job, yes men too.
Don't even get me started on my "love life"
Looks are important to me (my own looks not everyone elses before you go calling me shallow) I would give anything to be a hot guy which I'm not I'm just average which is prtety much the same thing as ugly. Average means not hot not hot = ugly.
Problems arise that I don't leave my house I already gave up on a love life bnecause ugly guys never get girls (dont give me that confidence crap) I appear confident on the outside and people give me comments like " How can you be so confident looking like you do, I wouldn't even leave my house if I looked like you!" I brush it aside and run back home and STAY home.
Yes I work out (I know people are gonna suggest this)
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you are the problem but where you live is really. I get it because where I live you aren't accepted if you dont smoke and get drunk even at my age. You don't look bad at all (side note changing your hair style, clothes style, facial hair, tattoos can really change ur appearance) you dont want to be around people who only accept you because on your looks anyway, to me personality is waaay so much important (sure its what stays in relationship you won't look the same forever) Bro go live where you are respected and accepted0
Most Helpful Guy
F'ck that dude. Who says, anyway? Focus on your education and future career and get bent on making lots of money and investing and managing it well. Focus on those things and not your looks cuz while it seems right now that's highly important... it's not. And trying to get laid with these girls? If you're not, you're not missing anything you won't eventually get at about a dime a dozen. So please don't sweat that!!!
Focus. Education. Career. Money. Do that and ugly or not won't matter a damn.0