I tried to make friends in hs (made a social circle of some guys and one girl in senior year) and was surrounded by nice people. but i'd get turned down for hanging out since they had their cliques. I met so many smart, kind, and funny people. Many cute chicks were there too. I never got to be more than an aquiantance to them. I even went to prom dateless (had fun with friends and stag girls). WTF. I also missed out on certain things as a kid like a PS2 or playing Gamecube/Playstation with friends (the older games like mario party 7 and crash racing and Pokemon Firered). I never even hugged or kissed a girl since I didn't have many female friends (or male). I didn't know many people who could introduce me to people or help me meet girls (since cold approach = no go). What to do when I start studying comp sci in csueb in fall? I make jokes occasionally, but not too often, and am not too muscular. Cuz of this, my confidence got shot and my grades dropped. and I dealt with strict ass parents (I'm Indian) who told me to focus ONLY on academics and not give a F**k about hobbies or friends (I enjoy movies and gaming, and have 1 social circle, and they think that's enough). But I felt that I was boring and that new people = more excitement. how do i make friends or get a girlfriend at this rate? Is it true that 160 lbs + 5 foot 8 + Indian + not too funny + shy (wont shut up around friends) + slight desperation = no friends or gf? or should I stop being nice to people since Nice guys finish last? I am loyal and WILL treat a girl right. I believe in respect and will NEVER hit a girl (unless I must). I don't drink or smoke and rarely party (only hang with /to make friends) People in my hs say I'm reallly nice. But, A wave of regret haunts me everyday, having "what if" thoughts.
Will I find someone who works hard AND plays hard (same hobbies, occasional party, friendly, down to going out the college style - to a restaurant or a bar/club)?
How do I meet friends like these?
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