I am a 16 year old who has real but large boobs than most 16 year olds. I have a cup size of a G. I have recently started dating a guy and I am nervous about him seeing me naked. Only because my boobs are saggy. When I lie down topless and bra-less my boobs fall under my armpits. Not fully of course but enough to make them look horrible when I lie down (my personal opinion). I think he is expecting perky boobs that sit up straight and I feel like he'll be disappointed when he sees them. Is this just me being paranoid/silly? Do guys really care about all those stuff? I really am nervous so I'd really like someone's help! Do you think he'll care that I am saggy or not?
Most Helpful Guy
Most guys don't care at all. Some few guys will care and they are not worth your time or your worry. Here's a thing you should know: there are many guys like me that appreciate and even prefer what you have. Don't sell yourself short. You are perfect the way you are. I strongly suspect the guy you are dating knows exactly what your body is like under your clothes. He has already decided to be with you, that means the physical attraction is already there. Have no worries. Enjoy your time together.
by the way
Hooray for saggy boobs!4
Most Helpful Girl
If boobs are big and real they sag end of story. Gravity does that and the weight of your breast is greater than a girl with small breasts. Boobs are also fat so they are fluid and move around a lot. Fake boobs don't because the material is firmer and lighter. But fake boobs feel gross and well... Fake. My boyfriends ex had implants and he told me they kinda freaked him out. He likes big breasted women and said that while her boobs looked great naked/clothed they felt fake to the touch, and we're always cold. She could be over heating and sweaty and they were still cold to the touch. And who wants that?
I have naturally large breasts too and so does my best friend. They aren't the perkiest things in the world but I've never gotten any complaints. And yeah I always hated the laying down thing too... But remember that hardly any bare boobs look good in that position especially in the angle you yourself are seeing them. You're looking up at a downward angle fairly close to your chest. Your natural direct attention is aimed at the space inbetween your boobs which can look quite alarming, but at other angles other people can see it can look curvaceous and attractive. Truth is, when your boyfriend sees you naked he isn't going to be picking apart your body like you do. He's attracted to the female form and there's one standing in front of him! As long as you don't point out what you hate about your body and show it to him he likely won't notice, or if he does notice he won't see a problem with it. With the technology age making images and videos of naked women of society's "ideal body" so available it's easy to assume it's all a guy will "settle for" or find attractive. People are also way more judgmental over the Internet because it can be anonymous, and they don't likely know the woman in real life, her personality hasn't added or subtracted any of her attractiveness to them. They aren't dating them. So the judgement is based solely on looks alone.1