I've never had a boyfriend or really any attention from guys. Am I intimidating looking, I'm kinda tall so that could be it? Opinions
Most Helpful Guy
It's not you. You're super-cute. You also dress pretty chill... meaning you don't look like a stuck-up kind of girl or anything. You basically look like the girl next door... except probably cuter than average lol.
My honest opinion is that you're just intimidated the hell out of guys with how cute you are, seriously. I'm not trying to hit on you or anything but that DOES happen. I stop myself all the time when I see a girl I really like... and I convince myself she's taken or she won't be interested. And I'm 31!!! I'm also a pretty confident dude.
I don't think your height really has anything to do with it. Maybe on the East Coast guys are weird about that but here in LA you see it all the time. The last 4 or 5 girls I've dated have all been over 4 inches taller than me. I'm only 5'6 lol.
Maybe you're super shy? Smile more, be more friendly. Get yourself alone once in awhile... like if you're hanging out with friends all the time see if you can go into one store by yourself, or see if you can hang back to make a purchase or browse while your friends walk ahead of you. This opens up opportunities for guys to approach you. If you're always around people then this basically negates ANY guy from approaching you. I mean seriously, how often does one single dude approach of gaggle of ladies just to hit on one of them? And how weird and/or awkward would that be? Also, if you're by yourself, don't be on your phone. If you're on your phone then that means you don't want to be bothered. Don't be plugged into any ear piece either.4
Most Helpful Girl
If you haven't then i'm hopeless lmao.
Maybe its because you're unapproachable, not in a bad way (I think?) they could think you're attractive and get nervous/anxious. Guys are much more nervous around pretty girls, as our girls around attractive men. Either that or you have bad confidence. Bad confidence can shine through physical appearance and if you think you're unattractive, other people will think you are LESS attractive. Carry yourself well with confidence!
But with most things take time and patience, the right man will find you, that or you will find him, either way God has a plan for you, and things will work out just fine! Give it time! :) Good luck.1