I'm being serious, lol. I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. Some guys seem to flirt with me (at least I think they're flirting?) but that's about it, they never ask for a date. I'm kinda shy, especially in front of ANY male around my age. A lot of people mistaken my shyness as being stuckup, but that's not the case at all. I don't have much confidence, especially when I was younger when boys would tease me horrendously that every night I would cry. Off topic, sorry. Anyways, please tell me whether or not it's because of my looks. I mean, if a lot of guys call you names ans say jerkish things... it must be true, right? I just feel so bad about myself I don't know what to do. And if it's going to be a negative comment, please keep it on a 'nicer level'. Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it's because you're ugly, because you're obviously not. There's nothing wrong with being 22, and not yet having your first boyfriend.
I'm 26, and so Is my girlfriend, and I'm her very first boyfriend. She was just super shy all the way through college, and eventually started meeting guys around age 23, but fell prey to the crap load of assholes and players of this world. That she tried a lot of dating, but nothing ever formed into anything than just dates.
One day about a year and a half ago. We both happened to be on a dating site (I'm a programmer, and never really go adventuring as much as I use to), and we it off. We went on quite a few dates, but after seeing each other for a few months. We decided to finally become an official couple, and now we're engaged to be married next year.
The point of this story is that it's ok to be single, and not to have a boyfriend at your age. It's your life, and you should do you. If a guy so happens to come along, and your "you" becomes a "we". Then so bed it, and I hope he makes you happy. As all people should find someone who they connect with for the long term, and not just the short.2
Most Helpful Girl
Its because you are too quiet and too shy.0