Ok so i have VERY low self esteem and i have been feeling like the ugliest girl ever lately but, my parents & my friends say that i'm very pretty? Wtf i really don't believe them at ALL i mean i've never had a boyfriend , no guys show interest in me EVER and it makes me feel really ugly and insecure :( but my parents and fam tell me all the time that i look like a model and it makes me feel very confused because when i look in the mirror i don't like what i see at all and if i were to auctually look as pretty as they say then would't i be confident in myself? This is just really getting to me ! I fought with my mom yesterday night Because she told me i was ungrateful for feeling ugly and that i'm very blessed to be pretty and all this BULLSHIT i seriously don't know what to believe !! I NEED approval of others to feel good about myself & i just wanna know the truth i wanna know if i'm really as pretty as they say i am or if they're just lying cause they don't wanna hurt my feelings by the way i'm only 15 years old i put that i'm 19 but i'm really not lol!! So maybe my low self esteem could just be because i'm still a hormonal teen lmao but tell me do you think that parents lie about this stuff? Is my mom lying to me? Am i really just an ugly piece of crap? Or do they really think that i am beautiful?
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I believe everyone is beautiful in their own way - We all have things that makes us special1
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I'm like you. I can't really believe it when others tell me I'm pretty. I've had boyfriends, but that's irrelevant, and they were 3-4 years older than me. We're both just 15 and have plenty of time to have boyfriends. (Besides, most of the guys our age are pretty immature and don't really dare hit on girls and stuff.. they mature later than us.) You don't need a guy right now, you need to work on yourself. Hundreds of people can tell you you're stunning, but it won't matter if you don't agree with them. You have to seek YOUR approval, no one else's. That's when you'll feel better about yourself, that's when you'll be mature enough to have a relationship with another person. You go girl.3