I'm in college and I feel like I'm ugly because most guys at school don't talk to me, for example when I go out with friends at school party's they always mostly talk to the other person and they end up asking my friend for her number but not mine. Even in class they don't talk to me and I don't have any guy friends. sAlso on some dating sites I message guys and some of them never reply back and I think it's because I'm ugly because there's no other reason why. How can I be better looking? Please help! here's a pic of me and be honest! :)
Most Helpful Guy
"Am I ugly because I feel like I am" The moment that you think that you're #UGLY is the moment that you become #UGLY in my mind. Since believe it or not people can/will pick up on your negative vibes about yourself. And once that happens you'll be in the situation that you're in now. Where nobody wants to be around you because they think that you're some "antisocial girl who's always moping around + seen sitting here or there alone. That would probably never talk to them even if they attempted to initiate a convo with you".
Hell, while I'm at it let me say this "others will treat you how you treat yourself" it seems. So if you carry yourself like a prize "people will be more likely to gravitate towards you" because they see a confident potentially outgoing person. When compared to someone who's always 2nd guessing + see's themselves as a piece of "trash". Ya know who thinks that they're not worth anyone's time of day anyway. Because I've seen plenty of so-called "ugly people" have plenty of friends, been approached, center of attention, picked 1st for sports etc.
But I'm guessing that unlike those people was more outgoing, initiated convos more + had a smile on their face while doing it ^_^. And ya know just put themselves out there as somebody who's worth your time because they'd make a great friend". And eventually the word would spread about _____ thus equaling more popularity + friends.
So do you think that you're a "prize" or a piece of "trash" REP WISE around campus in most people's minds? i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text.gif #RambleOver + you're not UGLY so yeah... change how ya see yourself and other will follow suit when it comes to you> because don't nobody like carrying around dead weight, right? LOL ^_^ www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a8433-are-you-versatile-personality-wise read that.. it may help ya.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you are very pretty.1