so I'm a 14 year old girl and I have self esteem issues. People tease me sometimes about them and it only makes them worse. I feel like the ugliest girl on the planet, no matter how many times people tell me I'm pretty. I would put up a photo, and I will if I have to but I'd prefer not for privacy issues :)) I dint take compliments and I feel like I'm dumb, although I'm in all the top classes at school. I feel like I'm clap at piano, even though I made it into a specific orchestra and I'm at grade four and it's one of the only things that relaxes me. What do I do? I feel like no one likes me, and no one will ever like me/love me.
- Yes, I think I am ugly33% (3)13% (2)21% (5)Vote
- No, I know I'm not ugly22% (2)67% (10)50% (12)Vote
- Kinda in the middle45% (4)20% (3)29% (7)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Many girls and even guys feel the same way as you do.
You're only 14 and there's a lot you're going to learn about life.
If people say you're pretty then accept that. Be thankful for what you have.
Looks aren't everything you know.
But... intelligence and food grades are very important! Don't worry about your looks, at least for now. Focus on your studies and it will pay off in the future.
Hope this helps...0
Most Helpful Girl
Be open to thinking of yourself as attractive. Most of the time, people who feel that they are ugly shut themselves off from the rest of the world for fear that it will hurt them.
In their opinion, the world's expected disapproval seems deserved. It is not. Most of the time, others only respond to a person as ''ugly'' because that person responds to themselves as ''ugly.''