I'm 20yo (in college trying to get a bf) and I have trichotillomania (brain disorder that cuases the uncontrollable urge to pull one's own hair out) and I pull out ONLY my eyelashes NOT the hair on my head... I normally wear thick black liquid eyeliner (I have ZERO eyelashes so without the liner my eyelids just look very pink...) so that you can't tell from far or I wear natrual looking fake lashes (people have been shocked to find out they were fake so I know they look legit) but it makes me self conscious especially when talking to a guy I like... So how much do guys actually care about eyelashes? Would they even notice they were gone?
On a side note I have been told many times that I'm very attractive but I also have a small gap between my 2 top teeth (parents couldn't afford braces) and it also makes me self conscious to the point that I refuse to smile while showing my teeth and covering my mouth when I laugh but do guys really notice things like that? And does it really matter?
Most Helpful Guy
Eyelashes? Not an issues. Honestly, I doubt most guys would notice, or make a big deal out of it. Your teeth? They sound fine to me. As long as they aren't black or something that comes from lack of care. That's different. Having a gap is like not even a top 15 list for a dealbreaker.1
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like a guy would should be more concerned about your lack of confidence (teeth) and condition (hair) if they can't respect you and care about you then they don't deserve your take lashes lol. I hope you feel better about yourself soon!!!2